In a world filled with constant communication and a multitude of platforms to express ourselves, finding the right balance between keeping our thoughts to ourselves and sharing them with others can be a real challenge. It’s a struggle I often grapple with. I’ve always found myself caught in a bit of a balancing act when it comes to sharing my thoughts and experiences and holding back for fear of judgment.
It can be incredibly disheartening when someone has tried to diminish our voice or make us feel small. It’s natural to develop a sense of hesitation and reluctance to share our thoughts and experiences after going through such an experience. When someone tries to undermine our voice, it can make us question our own worth and the value of what we have to say. We might start doubting ourselves, thinking that our thoughts aren’t important or that they won’t be well-received by others. It’s a tough situation to be in, and it’s completely valid to feel hesitant about sharing after such an experience.
However, it’s important to remember that the opinions and actions of a few people don’t define the worth of your voice. My thoughts, feelings, and experiences matter, and they have the potential to make a positive impact on others. I won’t let one negative group discourage me from sharing and connecting with others.
I believe that if my own struggles can help someone else feel validated or less alone, then it’s absolutely worth opening up and being vulnerable. After all, what’s the point of going through tough times if we can’t learn from them and lend a helping hand to others? When I’m faced with that decision of whether or not to share, I always ask myself if it can make a positive impact on someone else’s life. I’m not doing it for attention or sympathy; it’s about creating connection and empathy.
Sharing our vulnerabilities can create this beautiful space where others feel safe enough to open up too. It’s all about fostering a sense of community and supporting one another through the ups and downs of daily life.
Finding the right balance between what’s personal and what’s meant to be shared isn’t always easy. It’s a bit like walking a tightrope. I’m learning to listen to my instincts and figure out which stories are meant only to be written down and worked through on the pages of my journal and which ones are meant to be shared with the world. It’s an ongoing journey of self-discovery and learning to trust my own voice.
At the end of the day, I value both my privacy and the opportunity to connect with others. There’s something incredible about knowing that our struggles aren’t isolated incidents. By sharing our experiences, we can create a sense of solidarity and hope. It’s like shining a light on the path for someone else who might be going through a similar journey.
So, as I continue navigating this delicate balance, I hold onto those moments of self-reflection and solitude, where I find calm in the pages of my journal. And at the same time, I embrace the chance to reach out, lend an ear, and remind others that they’re not alone. Because together, we can make the world a little brighter and the struggles a little easier to bear. Thanks for being here to listen to what I choose to share.
In the world of beauty, there are so many amazing things to try! It is exciting to think about items that I would like to add to my collection and create a wishlist. It gives me a chance to explore new skincare, makeup, and other beauty items that catch my eye and pique my interest without any risk. Maybe you want to curate your own beauty wishlist or even add some of the things from my list to yours! (All the photos included below are the property of their respective originating company.)
What It Is: A deep-cleansing OUAI scrub with tropics-inspired notes of dragonfruit, orange blossom, tuberose, and Baltic amber
Good to Know: Paraben free, phthalate free
What It Does: Exfoliates impurities from your scalp and smooths out dry skin, while simultaneously offering reliable nourishment
Skin Type: For all types
How to Use: Scalp: In the shower, section wet hair to reveal the scalp. Apply a quarter-size amount directly to the scalp and rub in circular motions, then rinse. Body: Apply to damp skin and rub in circular motions to gently exfoliate
I already own a few beloved items from Ole Henriksen, but I haven’t yet tried their best selling vitamin C eye cream. “With a new and upgraded fragrance-free formula, now featuring real gold, that brightens, visibly diminishes dark circles and crow’s feet and improves concealer application and wear.
Powered by a potent triple vitamin C complex with REAL gold, which improves delivery of vitamin C to the skin, Banana Bright+ Eye Crème is clinically formulated to instantly brighten, smooth and hydrate undereyes, while also visibly reducing fine lines and wrinkles and defending skin against harmful free radicals and pollution.
The vegan, fragrance-free formula also features our iconic universally-flattering light-reflecting mineral pigments—inspired by makeup artist must-have, banana powder—to instantly-color-correct and revive tired under eyes. But that’s not all: It’s also crease-resistant and improves concealer wear.”
There is so much hype around this blush that whenever I go into Sephora the shades that I want are always sold out.
“A weightless, long-lasting liquid blush that blends and builds beautifully for a soft, healthy flush. Available in matte and dewy finishes. Create a pinch-perfect flush using this featherweight formula infused with long-lasting pigments that last all day. Available in matte or dewy finishes, this liquid blush blends beautifully to create soft, buildable color with a natural, second-skin finish.
Thirteen shades two finishes radiant and matte
This product is an Allure Best of Beauty award winner.”
I have heard a lot of good things about the Well People Bio Complexion Starter Set for $67 which includes a 3 piece complexion starter kit.
“Full product description: This all-in-one makeup kit features three of our bestselling full-size Bio Complexion products and is the key to a beautifully smooth complexion. It’s everything you need for your complexion to create the ideal base for the “no makeup” makeup look, conceal imperfections, control excess shine, and customize your coverage. This plant-powered trio is infused with Pomegranate Oil, Broccoli Seed Oil, and Olive-derived Squalane to hydrate for glowing healthy-looking skin.
The set includes:
Bio Correct Concealer: A buildable full-coverage concealer that seamlessly covers blemishes and corrects dark spots.
Bio Tint Moisturizer: A skin-perfecting tinted moisturizer with light-to-medium coverage and SPF 30 protection.
Bio Powder Foundation: A weightless pressed powder foundation that perfects and smooths the skin with a semi-matte finish.”
“Brighten up with this game-changing serum. This ultra-potent 10% blend of two forms of vitamin C, turmeric, and camu camu instantly brightens skin and helps even skin tone. The antioxidant-rich formula also helps defend skin from the damaging effects of environmental stressors, revealing a more youthful-looking complexion.
Benefits:
Brightening:A unique blend of two ultra-stable forms of vitamin C delivers a supercharged 10% potency
Quick-absorbing: Our quick-absorbing formula allows for easy layering and an instant boost of radiance
Glow-boosting: Leaves skin glowing and promotes an even skin tone
Clinically proven to:*
Even skin tone
Improve skin radiance/brightness
After eight weeks:**
100% said skin looked brighter
94% said it reduced the appearance of dark spots
97% said skin looked more youthful
94% said skin tone looked more even
*Based on a 32-subject clinical study after eight weeks.
**Based on a 32-subject consumer perception study after eight weeks of use. “
I have been oddly obsessed with wide leg pants recently. I think that these are a beautiful pair of pants. I doubt they will look like this on me, but a short legged girl can dream right?!
Sophisticated and decadent, this exceptionally tailored pant is crafted from our best-selling Italian stretch-wool with elegant double pleating at the front to enhance its wide-leg silhouette. Relaxed Wide-Leg Fit: Super high waisted. Relaxed fit from hip to thigh, voluminous leg. Full length. FROM ITALY’S MARZOTTO MILL: This style is crafted using fabric from Italy’s Marzotto mill – one of the oldest mills in Italy, renowned for creating innovative fabrics from the world’s most luxurious fibers. Adjustable: Internal button-tabs at the waistband adjust from high-rise to ultra-high rise. Zip fly with hook-and-bar closure. Belt loops. Front and back pockets. *Runs 1 size large. Size down if you prefer more form-fitting.
Made with sustainably sourced TENCEL™ branded Lyocell fibers for a supremely soft fabric. Two button closure with zip fly. Slant front pockets. Oversized patch pockets on legs. Seams down front legs. Adjustable tab at back waist. Back waist darts. Made exclusively for Banana Republic Factory.
Unfortunately, this $54 tan one is sold out, but hopefully will be back in stock at some point. I love it so I am going to keep it on my wish list. In the meantime, I am also going to add this $80 Waimea Olive Boxy Twill Utility Jacket to my wish list as well. Point collar. Long bell sleeves with cuff vent detail. Button front closure. Flap front pockets. Straight hem. Made exclusively for Banana Republic Factory.
What is on your beauty and fashion wish list? I would love to hear about it in the comments!
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I’ve had a lot of lifestyle changes recently which has sent me on a journey of revamping my wardrobe. Just because something is in style or on trend doesn’t necessarily mean that it will look good on my body shape. Understanding your body shape is the foundation of dressing confidently and embracing your curves. When you know how to accentuate your best features, you can create looks that not only flatter your unique silhouette but also boost your self-confidence. (this post contains affiliate links)
If you have an hourglass figure, with well-balanced bust and hips and a defined waistline, embrace your curves by opting for form-fitting clothing that accentuates your waist. Wrap dresses, belted tops, and high-waisted bottoms are great choices to showcase your curves. Try tailored silhouettes and fabrics that drape beautifully over your body, like a fitted pencil skirt paired with a tucked-in blouse, to highlight your waist and create a polished, feminine look.
For those with an inverted triangle body shape, characterized by broader shoulders and a narrower waist and hips, the key is to balance your upper body with your lower body. Choose V-neck or scoop-neck tops to create the illusion of a narrower shoulder line. Add volume to your lower body with A-line skirts, wide-leg pants, or flared jeans. This helps create a more proportionate look by adding curves to your lower body. Pairing a flowy blouse with wide-leg trousers can achieve a balanced and chic outfit.
If you have a pear-shaped body, with wider hips than bust and a defined waistline, draw attention to your upper body while balancing your lower body. Highlight your waist with fitted tops and experiment with different necklines to bring focus upward. A-line dresses and skirts that skim over your hips are flattering options. Combine them with tops that add volume to your shoulders, like boat neck or embellished tops, to create a balanced look and direct attention to your upper body. (Click HERE for some examples of tops with volume and HERE for some A-line dresses)
If you have an apple-shaped body, where your midsection carries more weight compared to your bust and hips, focus on emphasizing your assets such as your legs, arms, and décolletage. Choose V-neck or scoop-neck tops, skirts/dresses that hit above or below the knee, and sleeveless/short-sleeved tops. Define your waist with design elements like ruching or gathering. Opt for flowing silhouettes like A-line dresses and tops. Play with patterns and colors to divert attention. Layer strategically with structured blazers or cardigans. Consider shapewear for added support. Ultimately, wear what makes you feel comfortable and confident while embracing your body and unique style.
If you have a rectangle body shape, where your waist is slightly wider and not very defined, there are styling techniques that can help create the illusion of curves and enhance your proportions. Choose clothing that adds shape and definition to your waistline, such as belted dresses or tops with cinched waist details. Opt for garments with volume and texture to create curves, such as peplum tops or ruffled skirts. Experiment with layering to add dimension, such as pairing a fitted top with a cropped jacket or cardigan. Additionally, try wearing high-waisted bottoms to create the appearance of a more defined waistline. By incorporating these tips, you can dress in a way that flatters your rectangle shape and enhances your natural beauty.
Embracing and dressing for your body shape is all about highlighting your best features and feeling confident in your own skin. If you have thick thighs, like I do, and want to dress in a way that flatters your body, here are some suggestions that I have implemented into my own style:
Embrace the Right Fabrics: Opt for fabrics that have some stretch to them, like denim with a small percentage of elastane or cotton-blend materials. These fabrics will provide comfort and flexibility while accentuating your curves in a flattering way.
Find the Right Fit: When it comes to bottoms, look for styles that are tailored to accommodate your thighs. Avoid overly tight or clingy bottoms that may make you feel self-conscious. Instead, opt for pants, skirts, or dresses with a slight flare or A-line silhouette. These styles will create balance and visually elongate your legs.
Lengthen with Vertical Lines: Incorporate vertical lines in your outfits to create an elongating effect. Striped pants, vertical prints, or even a long cardigan can help visually lengthen your legs. Pair these items with a solid-colored top for a streamlined look.
Emphasize the Upper Body: Draw attention to your upper body by wearing statement tops or blouses with interesting details such as ruffles, embellishments, or eye-catching patterns. This will shift the focus upward and balance out your proportions.
Choose the Right Skirt Lengths: When it comes to skirts, opt for lengths that flatter your body shape. A-line skirts that hit just above or below the knee can be particularly flattering for those with thicker thighs. This style accentuates the waist while skimming over the thighs in a flattering way.
Experiment with Layering: Layering can be a great way to add dimension and create a balanced look. Consider pairing a fitted top with a loose, open cardigan or a tailored blazer. This combination will create a flattering silhouette and draw attention away from the thighs.
Wear Shapewear or Tights: If you feel more comfortable with added support, consider wearing shapewear or tights. These undergarments can help smooth out any perceived imperfections and provide a streamlined look under your clothes.
These are just general guidelines, and every one of you is uniquely beautiful. The most important aspect is to wear clothing that makes you feel comfortable and confident. Try different styles, experiment with accessories, and play with colors and patterns that resonate with your personal style. These suggestions are meant to serve as guidelines, but ultimately, it’s your personal style and confidence that will shine through. Embrace your body, celebrate your curves, and rock your unique fashion sense with pride. By understanding your body shape and dressing in a way that flatters your silhouette, you can confidently showcase your best features and embrace your unique beauty.
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“Your LOVE for one another will PROVE to the world that you are my disciples.” John 13:35
The Bible verse John 13:35 carries a powerful message, it emphasizes the essential aspect of being a disciple of Christ: the demonstration of love towards one another. Love that transcends political affiliations, levels of conservativeness, pro-life stances, fashion choices, or any external characteristics that may divide us.
In today’s world, where divisions and differences seem to abound, it is easy to lose sight of the core principles that Jesus taught. He emphasized the importance of love as a defining characteristic of his followers. Love is meant to be the distinguishing mark of Christians, the evidence that we are truly walking in the footsteps of Jesus.
It is a love that mirrors the selfless and sacrificial love demonstrated by Jesus himself. This love is not selective, only extended to those who share our beliefs or align with our perspectives. It extends to all people, regardless of their backgrounds, beliefs, or appearances.
By loving one another, we display the transformative power of Christ’s teachings. This love speaks louder than political debates, ideological differences, or personal preferences. It breaks down barriers, builds bridges, and brings people together in a profound way.
Our love should be evident in our actions and attitudes. It should be expressed through compassion, kindness, forgiveness, and a genuine desire to help and serve others. It involves treating everyone we encounter with dignity, respect, and empathy. It means actively seeking opportunities to uplift, support, and encourage those around us.
When we choose to love unconditionally, we bear witness to the transformative love of Jesus. Our love should inspire others, drawing them closer to the truth and goodness found in Christ. It should be a beacon of hope in a world that often seems divided and filled with animosity.
The verse reminds us that our love for one another is a reflection of our relationship with Jesus. It is a tangible demonstration of the faith that we profess. Love becomes our testimony, speaking volumes about the transformative power of Christ’s teachings.
Let’s not allow our differences to define us or overshadow the love that we are called to demonstrate. Instead, let’s focus on emulating the love of Jesus, allowing it to radiate through our words, actions, and interactions with others. May our love for one another be a powerful testament to the world, serving as proof that we are truly following in the footsteps of our Savior.
Last week I posted about my frustration with finding a lack of love in the church. If you want to read more about that you can click HERE.
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Overall, understanding your skin undertone is essential in making informed choices about makeup and clothing, helping you highlight your natural beauty and create a harmonious and flattering appearance.
Undertones generally fall into three categories: warm, cool, and neutral. Warm undertones manifest as a golden, peachy, or yellowish hue in the skin. Cool undertones, on the other hand, often present as pink, red, or even slightly bluish tones. Neutral undertones indicate a balance between warm and cool tones.
Understanding your skin undertone is important when choosing makeup and clothing because it helps you select colors that complement your complexion and enhance your overall appearance. Here’s why it matters:
Foundation Matching: Knowing your undertone is crucial when choosing a foundation that matches your skin. Foundations come in different undertones (warm, cool, neutral), and selecting the right one ensures that it blends seamlessly with your natural skin tone.
Flattering Makeup: Different makeup shades can either enhance or clash with your skin undertone. By identifying your undertone, you can choose makeup colors (such as eyeshadows, blushes, and lipsticks) that harmonize with your complexion, creating a more flattering and cohesive look.
Clothing Choices: Understanding your undertone helps you make informed decisions when selecting clothing colors. Certain hues can make your skin appear radiant and vibrant, while others may wash you out or create a stark contrast. By choosing clothing in shades that complement your undertone, you can enhance your overall appearance.
Jewelry and Accessories: Your undertone can also influence the choice of jewelry and accessories that best suit you. Certain metals and gemstones compliment warm undertones, while others complement cool undertones. By selecting pieces that align with your undertone, you can enhance your overall style and create a cohesive look.
If you’re uncertain about your undertones, there are a few methods to help you determine them:
Look at the inside of your wrist:
The vein test is a popular method to help determine your undertones. Here’s a summary of what the vein colors may indicate:
Greenish veins: If the veins on your wrist appear more greenish, it is often associated with warm undertones. Warm undertones are typically associated with golden, peachy, or yellowish hues in the skin.
Bluish or purplish veins: If the veins on your wrist appear bluish or purplish, it suggests cool undertones. Cool undertones are commonly associated with pink, red, or even slightly bluish tones in the skin.
Mix of green and blue veins: If you observe a mix of green and blue veins on your wrist, it indicates neutral undertones. Neutral undertones are considered a balance between warm and cool tones.
How do you look when you wear yellow or orange? Or green and red? The way you look when wearing yellow, orange, green or red can vary depending on your individual complexion and undertones. Here are some general observations:
Which of these three sets of clothing looks the best on you?
Yellow: Yellow can be a tricky color to pull off for some individuals. Warm-toned individuals with golden or peachy undertones tend to look flattering in yellow, as it complements their warm complexion. On the other hand, cool-toned individuals with pink or blue undertones may find that yellow washes them out or clashes with their skin tone.
Orange: Like yellow, orange can be a challenging color to wear. Warm-toned individuals with golden or olive undertones often look great in various shades of orange. It can bring out the warmth in their skin and create a vibrant look. However, cool-toned individuals may find that certain shades of orange make them appear sallow or sickly.
Green is a versatile color that can work well for a range of undertones. Cool-toned individuals with pink or blue undertones often look great in shades of green, especially cooler tones like mint or emerald green. Warm-toned individuals can also wear green, particularly shades with warmer undertones like olive or moss green
Red is a bold and attention-grabbing color that can be flattering on various undertones. Warm-toned individuals with golden or peachy undertones can often pull off warmer shades of red like tomato red or fiery orange-red. Cool-toned individuals can opt for cooler reds like berry or burgundy shades, which complement their pink or blue undertones.
It’s important to consider individual factors such as skin undertones, complexion, and personal preferences when determining which colors flatter you the most. While one sister may look great in peachy corals and yellows, the other sister may not find them as flattering due to differences in undertones and complexion. It’s always a good idea to experiment with different colors and observe how they complement your skin before deciding on your preferred shades.
What type of jewelry do you prefer on your skin?
Gold (warm) or Silver (cool)? Pay attention to whether gold or silver jewelry looks better against your skin. If gold enhances your complexion, it suggests warm undertones, while silver compliments cool undertones. If both gold and silver suit you, you may have neutral undertones.
Use Sunscreen!
What happens to your skin when you are out in the sun without sunscreen? When you expose your skin to the sun without sunscreen, several things can happen depending on your skin’s reaction. Here are some general observations:
Sunburn: If your skin tends to burn quickly and turns pink or red after sun exposure, it indicates that you may have cool undertones. Cool-toned individuals often have less melanin, which provides natural protection against the sun’s UV rays.
Tan with potential for burning: If your skin has the ability to tan but can also burn if exposed for too long, it suggests that you have neutral undertones. Neutral undertones allow for some tanning but still require protection from excessive sun exposure.
Tanning: If your skin tans easily and rarely burns, it generally indicates warm undertones. While not always the case, warm-toned individuals tend to have more melanin, which provides better natural protection against the sun’s UV rays. (you still need to wear sunscreen even if you don’t burn easily)
PSA: Always wear sunscreen! It’s essential to note that regardless of your undertones, sun protection is crucial for maintaining healthy skin. Sunscreen should always be applied to protect against harmful UV rays, regardless of your ability to tan or burn.
The color flecks in your eyes can provide additional clues about your undertones. Here’s a general guide:
Golden or hazel flecks: If your eyes have golden or hazel flecks, it typically indicates warm undertones.
Blue or gray flecks: If your eyes have blue or gray flecks, it suggests cool undertones.
A mixture of both: If you have a combination of golden/hazel and blue/gray flecks, it generally indicates neutral undertones.
If you are like me and have deep, dark brown eyes without any visible color flecks, it does not help indicate a specific undertone. Eye color alone may not be a reliable indicator of undertones, but it can complement the overall assessment when combined with other factors such as reaction to sun exposure, and preference for certain clothing and jewelry colors.
White Fabric Test:
Hold a piece of white fabric, such as a towel or shirt, near your face in natural light. Warm undertones typically appear more radiant against off-white or cream shades, while cool undertones tend to look brighter against pure white. Neutral undertones may find that both shades work well for them.
So what did you come up with?
Based on the information provided, here are some general guidelines for choosing makeup and clothing colors based on different undertones:
Cool Undertones:
Jewel tones are flattering for you. Look for makeup and clothing in shades of blue, purple, blue-green, green, magenta, and some red shades.
When selecting foundation, opt for shades with a blue or pink undertone to complement your cool undertones.
Warm Undertones:
Earthy tones work well for you. Choose makeup and clothing in shades of yellow, orange, brown, orangey-reds, and yellow-green.
For foundation, look for shades with a yellow or golden undertone to enhance your warm undertones.
Neutral Undertones:
You have the flexibility to wear a wide range of colors. Feel free to experiment with different shades and have fun!
“Rose gold” shades, which blend cool and warm tones, can be particularly flattering for you.
Whether you prefer warmer shades like brown, orange, and reds, or cooler makeup tones like purple, blue, and green, go ahead and wear them as they can complement your neutral undertones.
Remember, these are general guidelines, and personal preference and experimentation play a significant role in finding the colors that suit you best. By utilizing these methods, you can gain valuable insight into your skin’s undertones, enabling you to make informed choices when it comes to foundation, makeup, and clothing colors. Enjoy exploring different shades and have fun expressing your unique style!
It can all be a bit confusing, so if you are still not quite sure as to what your undertone is, take a quick stop on my Pinterest board called “skin undertones” I have a lot of pins about this subject that can help you!
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Discover your skin’s undertone and why it is important
If the title doesn’t immediately make you start singing the 2003 Black Eyed Peas song, then I don’t know if we can be friends.
For the last several years I’ve been on a personal spiritual journey. I’ve been discovering what I believe and why I believe what I do. Spurred on by finding myself frustrated by different difficult situations in my church community, I found myself constantly asking, “Where is the love? Where is the love?…WHERE IS THE LOVE?!
The church is comprised of individuals who, despite their best intentions, are prone to shortcomings and failings. While love is a central principle throughout the Bible, I recognize that people within the church can still display flawed behaviors and attitudes that contradict the essence of love and compassion.
Conflicts and divisions can arise within any community, even including the church. Varying perspectives, beliefs, and personal preferences can lead to disagreements and misunderstandings, hindering the authentic expression of love. When this happens, it can be disheartening and easy to perceive a lack of love within the church.
1 Corinthians 13:1-3 specifically speaks about what happens when things are done without love…
If I speak with human eloquence and angelic ecstasy but don’t love, I’m nothing but the creaking of a rusty gate. If I speak God’s Word with power, revealing all his mysteries and making everything plain as day, and if I have faith that says to a mountain, “Jump,” and it jumps, but I don’t love, I’m nothing.If I give everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don’t love, I’ve gotten nowhere. So, no matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I’m bankrupt without love. (The Message Bible: emphasis added by me)
Through my own Bible reading and study, I’ve spent time getting to know who Jesus is and what He taught. During his ministry, Jesus constantly taught the importance of showing love and kindness towards those around us. He acknowledged those shunned by society. He was a friend to the outcasts. A dinner companion to the sinner. A healer of the sick. A comfort to the hurting. The more I read about Jesus, the more I love Him. My faith and trust in God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit have only increased along this journey.
I acknowledge that I have not always exemplified love in the past, I recognize that there have been moments when I’ve succumbed to pettiness, unkindness, and an unloving attitude. Regrettably, there have been instances where I have responded with unkindness to those who treated me poorly. While I cannot alter the actions of others or the way I reacted in the past, I am resolutely choosing to embrace a loving approach in the future.
My quest to discover “Where is the love?” constantly leads me back to Jesus. I find myself consistently drawn back to Him. I have come to realize that even in situations where love appears to be absent, He remains present.
When asked which commandment is the most important, Jesus answered “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. ‘ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself. ‘ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” Simply put, Love God, Love Others.
Following in the footsteps of Jesus, I have the capacity to become a friend to those who feel alone, a source of encouragement to those who are disheartened, and a warm smile for those who find themselves isolated. I can extend compassion and recognition to those who are marginalized by society. Through consciously choosing to care for and wholeheartedly love individuals who cannot repay me, provide personal gain, or offer anything in return, I have the opportunity to manifest the love of Jesus. In each decision I make, I can be the embodiment of the love that someone else needs.
With each choice I make I can show the love of Jesus.
Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have.Love doesn’t strut, Doesn’t have a swelled head, Doesn’t force itself on others, Isn’t always “me first,” Doesn’t fly off the handle, Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others, Doesn’t revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with anything,Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never looks back, But keeps going to the end. 1 Corinthians 13 4-7
Where there is no love… Be the love!
Despite moments when the actions of the church and its leaders have left me bewildered, causing me to question, “Where is the Love?”, I firmly believe that regardless of any circumstances, I can always discover love in God.
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People killin’, people dyin’ Children hurt, hear them cryin’ Can you practice what you preach Or would you turn the other cheek?
Father, Father, Father, help us Send some guidance from above ‘Cause people got me, got me questionin’ Where is the love (love)
Where is the love? (The love) Where is the love? (The love) Where is the love, the love, the love?
Side parts and skinny jeans have become unjustly labeled as indicators of age. But here’s the thing—I absolutely adore skinny jeans and will continue rocking a side part regardless of my age. The truth is, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with aging. Personally, as the years go by, I find myself appreciating life more and more!
While I firmly believe that mature skin is beautiful and age is just a number, there’s no reason to unintentionally add years to your appearance through makeup application techniques.
Applying makeup is a highly personal experience, and if you love the way you look after you’ve done your makeup, then by all means, keep doing what makes you feel fabulous. However, if you’re interested in achieving a more youthful and radiant look, I’ve got you covered with five invaluable tips to help you avoid unintentionally aging yourself through your makeup routine. Let’s dive in and discover how to enhance your natural beauty and embrace a youthful glow that defies expectations.
Tip 1: Moisturize your skin and neck:
Indulging your skin with some extra care is a decision you’ll never regret. Yes, even if you have oily skin, moisturizing remains an essential step in your skincare routine! Think of moisturizers as your skin’s hydration boosters, focusing on replenishing the water content rather than the natural oils it produces. Surprisingly, even oily skin can become dehydrated if not properly moisturized. And let’s face it, dried-out oily skin only triggers your body to produce more oil, plunging you into a relentless cycle.
Imagine your skin tired, oily, dry, and cracked—without proper care, your foundation would accentuate those lines, leaving your face with an older appearance. That’s why it’s crucial to make cleansing, toning, and moisturizing your daily ritual. By giving your skin the tender loving care it deserves, you’ll not only restore its vitality but also radiate a youthful and refreshed glow. So, embrace the transformative power of a consistent skincare routine and unlock the secret to a vibrant complexion that defies time. Your skin will thank you!
The life-changing moisturizing cream that only costs $13
Tip 2: Choose the correct color of blush:
Oh, how I adore blush! This enchanting makeup product possesses a certain magic—it effortlessly and swiftly breathes life and radiance into your face.
A touch of blush applied to the apples of your cheeks can work wonders, granting your face a lifted appearance. However, as with any magic, the wrong choice of color can turn blush from a blessing into a curse. It’s all about finding the perfect shade that complements your skin tone. For a youthful and luminous glow, consider opting for a soft peach or rosy hue. On the other hand, selecting a shade that’s too dark can leave your face looking lackluster and fatigued. Let’s ensure that the blush you choose remains a captivating part of your makeup routine, enhancing your natural beauty and unveiling a vibrant, rejuvenated you.
The term “eyeshadow finish” refers to the texture and appearance of the shadow, playing a significant role in the overall effect it creates. There are five primary finishes to choose from: matte, satin, frost, shimmer, and glitter. The choice of eyeshadow finish can greatly influence various aspects of the shadow, including its ease of use, color payoff, pigmentation, and the final result it yields.
As we transition into our more mature years, our skin tends to react differently to different finishes. While in our teens and twenties, we can experiment with almost any makeup look, mature skin requires a more intentional approach when incorporating shimmers and glitters. However, this doesn’t mean we have to completely avoid them. Instead, we can strategically incorporate them in a way that enhances our features.
Personally, I have an undeniable fondness for all things glittery, sparkly, and shimmering. Anything that catches the light instantly grabs my attention. Nowadays, I utilize glitter, sparkles, and shimmer on the center of the lid and in the inner corner of the eye. To frame the eyes, I opt for matte shades as transitions and in the crease. By strategically placing shadows, we can divert attention from any sagging lids and create the illusion of a lifted appearance. So, let’s embrace the magic of different eyeshadow finishes, skillfully utilizing them to accentuate our unique beauty at every stage of life.
One of my favorite all matte palettes is the urban decay naked ultimate basics palette, unfortunately, as with all things I love it is no longer available… that’s ok because the Tarte Clay Play Face Shaping Palette will get the job done. Don’t want to spend $30-45 USD on an eyeshadow palette? Try out the ELF Mad for Mattes Palette. It is only $10 and has 10 all matte shades.
Tarte Clay Play Palette Urban Decay Naked Ultimate Basics Palette
Tip 4: Mastering the Art of Youthful Eyeliner: A Delicate Approach to Enhance Your Eyes
It’s no secret that applying eyeliner with a heavy hand can often result in an older appearance, regardless of your age. Take a moment to reminisce about your 15-year-old self—remember when trying to look more mature meant applying a thick line of black eyeliner around your entire eye? I can certainly relate!
To achieve a more youthful and refreshed look, it’s time to rethink our eyeliner techniques. Instead of lining the entire eye with a dark and heavy stroke, let’s opt for a subtler approach. Start your eyeliner in the middle of your upper eyelid, gradually thickening it as you extend it outward. This technique creates a soft and lifted effect, beautifully enhancing your eyes.
When it comes to lining the lower lash line, consider using eyeshadow instead of traditional eyeliner. The gentle touch of eyeshadow provides a softer appearance to your eye makeup. By using eyeshadow to line under the eye, you’ll still achieve the desired detail without adding weight to your eyes.
Now, let’s take a moment to compare two pictures side by side. Would you believe that in the first picture, I am approximately five years younger than in the second picture? The power of subtle eyeliner application truly speaks for itself, offering a more youthful and vibrant allure.
So, embrace this delicate approach to eyeliner and let your eyes radiate timeless beauty. With a few adjustments, you’ll unlock the secret to captivating eyes that defy age and exude youthful charm.
This dark liner around and under my eyes adds weight to the under eye area making me look older than I am.Using an eyeshadow to line under the eye instead of a eye pencil gives a softer appearance to my eye look
Tip 5: When choosing your lipstick shade, choose shades that are closest to the darkest part of your lips:
Embrace Youthful Lips: Finding the Perfect Nude Shade to Revitalize Your Look
As we age, it’s only natural for our lips to lose some of their fullness and pigmentation. While nude lip colors have gained immense popularity, it’s essential to be mindful of the shade you choose. While some nude shades can be stunning, opting for a hue that closely matches your skin tone can inadvertently cause your lips to blend into your complexion, resulting in a loss of your natural lip line.
To maintain a youthful appearance and bring a rejuvenating touch to your entire face, it’s crucial to select nude shades that are closer to the darkest part of your lips. By choosing these shades, you can preserve definition and prevent your lips from blending into the surrounding skin. This approach helps to retain a more vibrant and youthful look.
While nude lip colors can still be incredibly flattering, it’s all about finding the right balance between enhancing your natural lip color and selecting a shade that complements your skin tone. By doing so, you can effortlessly revitalize your look, adding a touch of allure and radiance to your overall appearance.
So, let’s embrace the power of a well-chosen nude shade and celebrate the beauty of our lips at every age. By selecting shades that enhance our features, we can embrace our unique individuality and showcase a youthful and vibrant glow that stands the test of time.
I recommend the Revlon Super Lustrous Lipsticks. With 3 different finishes and 87 shades to choose from (yes, that’s correct, 87 shades!😮), there’s definitely a perfect shade for you! You can read all about how much I love the Revlon Super Lustrous Lipsticks by clicking HERE.
There is nothing wrong with getting older, but there is no reason to make yourself look older than you are.
Makeup application is a deeply personal journey, and if you’re content with the way you look after applying your makeup, by all means, continue doing what brings you joy and confidence. Your unique style and preferences deserve to shine.
However, if you’ve gained some valuable insights today and feel inspired to make a change, I would be thrilled to hear about your experience. Feel free to share your thoughts and feedback in the comment section below. Your journey of self-expression and growth is a beautiful one, and I’m here to support and celebrate it with you.
If you decide to try out the tips shared, I’m eager to know your thoughts on the results. Every step we take toward refining our makeup techniques is an opportunity for discovery and self-expression. So, let’s embark on this transformative journey together and continue to explore the boundless possibilities of beauty. Don’t hesitate to share your experiences and let me know how these tips have influenced your makeup routine. Your voice and feedback are invaluable!
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This time of year the arrival of peonies in the Northeast brings not only an enchanting fragrance but also a burst of vibrant colors to gardens all over New England. While they only bloom for about 7-10 days, they make a big impact.
Peonies offer a remarkable variety of hues and shapes, each possessing its own unique allure. From the classic white, pink, and red varieties to the more uncommon yellow, coral, and lavender hues, these flowers never fail to captivate with their beauty. Some peonies feature single or semi-double blooms, while others boast the luxurious layers of petals found in the double and bomb types. The diversity of peonies reflects the rich tapestry of life itself, with each individual having their own distinct qualities and contributions.
Interestingly, the presence of ants on peonies is a common sight. While it may seem peculiar, ants play a significant role in the blooming process. The tight buds of peonies secrete a sweet nectar that attracts ants. As the ants crawl over the buds, they help to loosen the petals, enabling them to unfurl gracefully. In a way, this symbiotic relationship can be seen as a metaphor for our own journeys through life.
Just as ants aid in the blooming of peonies, we, too, rely on the support and assistance of others to flourish. Throughout our lives, we encounter countless stages of growth and development. Like peonies in their various stages of bud, bloom, and fading, we undergo transformations and transitions. Along the way, the presence of loved ones, friends, and mentors can help nurture our growth and open doors to new opportunities.
Just as ants gently coax peonies to reveal their full glory, the guidance and encouragement we receive from others can facilitate our own blossoming. Whether it’s the wisdom imparted by our grandparents, the kindness shown by friends, or the mentorship offered by teachers, these interactions play an invaluable role in shaping our lives. May we all continue to bloom and lend a helping hand to others, just as the peonies and ants beautifully intertwine in their harmonious dance of growth and transformation.
These exquisite flowers not only bring a burst of vibrant colors and delicate fragrance to the region but also bring to my mind memories from my childhood. Growing up, my grandmother always grew flowers, specifically I remember her peonies and rhododendrons. I remember as a small child looking forward smelling the beautiful scent of the peonies. Even to this day, the sight of peonies in full bloom compels me to stop and take in their delightful scent.
Peonies hold a special significance in my life, not only because of the memories they evoke but also because of the small lessons they taught me. In a way, peonies symbolize the stages of my own life. They start as tightly closed buds, representing the potential within. With time and nurturing, they unfurl into magnificent blossoms, revealing their true splendor. Similarly, I have experienced moments of growth, transformation, and the blooming of my own potential, thanks to the guidance, help, and support of loved ones.
Just as the ants that help open the peony buds, the presence of others has been instrumental in my own journey. The encouragement, love, and support of family, friends, and mentors have played a significant role in shaping who I am today. Their belief in me has helped me overcome obstacles and embrace my own unique path.
As I look at the blooming peonies, I am reminded of the interconnectedness of life and the beauty that can be found in shared experiences. The peonies in my life have not only brought beauty and nostalgia but have also taught me the power of nurturing, resilience, and the importance of the people who help us bloom.
I used to be a staunch believer in leaving flowers in the garden. My perspective shifted in 2020 when my youngest sister shared the joy of fresh cut blooms throughout her house. Since then, I have enjoyed the vibrant colors and sweet scents transforming my own space. Last evening, I noticed raindrops starting to fall, I ran outside to save these beautiful peonies from losing all their petals.
As the coming rain threatened to wash away the delicate petals of the peonies growing in my own garden, I cherish the fleeting moments I have with these magnificent flowers. They serve as a reminder to appreciate the beauty around me and to express gratitude for the people who have nurtured me along the way. I am committed to cultivating my own garden of peonies and also being like the ants helping others bloom in their own unique ways.
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(All of the peonies pictured grew in my own garden at one time or another.)
When it comes to improving the look and health of your skin, there is one essential step that surpasses all others in importance. Are you ready to discover the key to unlocking radiant skin? It lies in the transformative power of wearing sunscreen every day.
Sunscreen is not just a seasonal necessity; it is the cornerstone of healthy skin all year round. By diligently applying sunscreen, you shield your skin from the harmful effects of the sun’s UV rays, which can lead to premature aging, sunspots, and an increased risk of skin cancer.
Start your skincare routine by thoroughly cleansing your skin, removing impurities and excess oil. Follow this with toning to balance your skin’s pH levels and prepare it for further treatment. Then, embrace the most crucial step: apply a broad-spectrum sunscreen with an appropriate SPF for your skin type.
Wearing sunscreen every day forms a protective barrier that defends your skin against UVA and UVB rays. It prevents sunburn, premature wrinkles, and age spots, ensuring your skin remains youthful, healthy, and radiant for years to come.
Consistency is paramount. Incorporate wearing sunscreen into your daily routine, rain or shine, and make it an indispensable part of your skincare ritual. Whether you’re heading outdoors or staying indoors, safeguarding your skin with sunscreen is a non-negotiable practice.
Remember, the sun’s rays can penetrate through clouds and windows, making sunscreen an essential defense mechanism. Choose a sunscreen that suits your preferences and skin type, whether it’s a lightweight lotion, a moisturizer with built-in SPF, or a mineral-based option.
May is Skin Cancer Awareness Month, and while I am a little…a lot late to the game on that, I still want to emphasizing the significance of protecting our skin from the sun’s harmful rays. As a passionate advocate, I strongly promote the daily application of sunscreen as a vital measure to safeguard our skin from the detrimental impact of the sun’s harmful UV rays.
Personally, I prioritize the use of sunscreen every single day and exercise extreme caution when spending extended periods in the sun. However, despite my best efforts, I unfortunately developed a patch of skin cancer on my arm. This experience has further strengthened my commitment to spreading awareness and encouraging others to take proactive steps in protecting their skin.
I am sharing some of my favorite sunscreens with you. Let me know which ones you’ve tried or if you have any favorites of your own!
Let me share with you a little secret that might already be on your radar. Recently, I found myself running low on my beloved Supergoop Unseen Sunscreen SPF 40. In a quest to find an alternative, I stumbled upon the Trader Joes Daily Facial Sunscreen SPF 40, and what I discovered left me absolutely thrilled. These two sunscreens are practically identical!
Both products boast a luxuriously smooth texture, gliding effortlessly with a slick silicone feel. Moreover, their active ingredients are strikingly similar, ensuring superb protection for your skin. The best part? They both play well under makeup, leaving you with a flawless canvas to create your desired looks.
Now, let’s talk about the price. Brace yourself for this game-changing revelation! The Trader Joe’s Daily Facial sunscreen costs a mere $9, while its counterpart, the Supergoop Unseen sunscreen, commands a hefty $38 for the same size. It’s a no-brainer decision for me as to which one I’ll continue to purchase and rely on. 😎
Finding dupes for beloved products is an exhilarating experience. It not only saves you a considerable amount of money but also allows you to indulge in your favorite items without compromising on quality. I can’t help but revel in the joy of stumbling upon such a fantastic alternative.
So, if you’re a fan of the Supergoop Unseen Sunscreen but want to explore a wallet-friendly option without sacrificing performance, give the trader joes Daily Facial Sunscreen a try. Trust me, it’s a discovery worth celebrating in your skincare journey! Cheers to finding incredible dupes that keep us feeling fabulous and savvy.
The Cerave AM Daily Moisturizing Lotion with 30 spf is my go to moisturizing SPF. It’s perfect on its own and works great under makeup. This lotion is fragrance free, has a light-weight, non-greasy texture that sinks in quickly. The real winning feature is that it does not break me out the way that most spf products do. This Facial AM Moisturizing Lotion SPF 30 acts as a moisturizer and sunscreen in one. One pump is enough to cover my entire face, ears and a bit of my neck. Three ounces cost around $13.
By prioritizing the use of sunscreen, you are taking a proactive step towards preserving the health and beauty of your skin. Watch as your complexion becomes more even, youthful, and vibrant over time, thanks to the protective shield provided by sunscreen.
So, seize this opportunity to embrace the single most important thing you need to start doing right away: incorporate sunscreen into your daily skincare regimen. Let your commitment to sun protection be the driving force behind your skin’s ultimate transformation. Your journey to radiant skin starts now!
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July 29th is National Lipstick Day in the United States! 💄
Revlon has been making their super lustrous lipstick for what seems like a million years. These classic lipsticks are sold in several different finishes such as matte and pearl, but the crème formula is my favorite. It has a comfortable feel that doesn’t dry out the lips as some lipstick formulas can. There’s no overpowering scent either. With 87 different shades to choose from (yes, that’s correct, 87 shades!), there’s definitely a perfect shade for you! Pictured below are five of my favorite revlon lipstick shades and finishes.
While I love wearing lipstick, most days I leave the lipstick for special occasions, I can usually be found only wearing chapstick. I never leave home without a tube or two of chapstick in my pocket. While you’re at Target pick up a niveausa chapstick in the blue tube, it’s my favorite chapstick.
To celebrate National Lipstick Day Ulta Beauty has a buy one, get one 50% off of top brands such as TooFaced, Mac and Colourpop. Click HERE to take advantage of this week long sale.
What about you? What is your favorite type of lipstick? Do you love to wear different shades and finishes of lipstick or do you prefer to keep it simple and wear chapstick? Do you wear a lip mask while you sleep?
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