Abstract/TL;DR:It’s important to recognize when relationships are negatively impacting our well-being and to grant ourselves permission to break free. Letting go of toxic relationships creates space for positive energy and personal growth. Prioritizing our own well-being and happiness is not a failure but a courageous act of growth.
In life, we often find ourselves entangled in relationships that have an impact on our well-being. Some connections bring joy, support, and growth, while others can leave us feeling drained, stuck, and even worse about ourselves. It is during these moments that we need to grant ourselves the permission to break free. We need to recognize that we have the power to step away from relationships that are weighing us down, hindering our personal growth, or perpetuating negativity.
I’ve learned the hard way that it’s important to recognize when certain people or groups consistently make me feel worse about myself. It’s during those times that I need to reevaluate where I invest my time and energy.
Letting go can be daunting, even seemingly unattainable at times. But I can say with certainty, based on my own experiences, that while it is undeniably challenging, it is incredibly worth it. When I finally mustered the courage to distance myself from toxic relationships, a weight was lifted off my shoulders!
I realized that I was allowing these negative influences to hold me back, to prevent me from reaching my true potential. By breaking free, I created space in my life for positive energy and growth. It wasn’t easy, and there were moments of doubt and loneliness along the way. But the freedom and self-empowerment I gained far outweighed any temporary discomfort.
I realized that I deserved to be around people who uplifted me, supported my dreams, and made me feel good about myself. Those toxic relationships were like anchors, dragging me down. Letting go allowed me to soar and explore new horizons.
It’s okay to prioritize your own well-being. It’s okay to prioritize your own happiness. It’s okay to let go of relationships that no longer serve you. Breaking free is not a failure; it’s a courageous act of self- love, growth and preservation.
So, give yourself permission to break free. Take that first step towards liberation, it will be a hard daunting journey that is worth taking. Embrace the unknown and trust that the journey towards a more fulfilling positive life is worth it.
Break free from chains that hold you tight, Embrace liberation, embrace the light. Give yourself permission to soar and thrive, Release what weighs you down, come alive.
Abstract/TL;DR:Power dynamics in churches can influence interactions and decisions within the community. When power is misused, it can lead to negative actions and behaviors, including spiritual manipulation and abuse. Victims may hesitate to speak out due to fear and the culture of secrecy within the church. Recognizing and addressing power dynamics, manipulation, and abuse is essential for creating safe and supportive church communities that prioritize the well-being of all members. Restoring the true values and teachings of love and respect is crucial for healing and justice.
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Content Warning: I may not cover all of these things in detail, you might feel triggered by the content of this post. CW: religious trauma, spiritual abuse, physical abuse, SA, guilt and shame, emotional manipulation, loss of community, and fear of rejection
Whether we are discussing the Catholic church, Mark Driscoll and Mars Hill, Bill Gothard and the ILBP, the Southern Baptist Convention, or any one of the several Hillsong church scandals, or, in my experience, within the Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) religious institution, it is unfortunate that the subject of church leaders abusing their congregants has become so prevalent in the news.
Let’s start by talking about what power dynamics mean: Power dynamics determine who has power and control in relationships and social settings. Understanding them helps us see how power affects interactions and decisions. It shows how power can be used positively or negatively and its impact on individuals and communities.
In a church, power dynamics also involve spiritual control and authority. Leaders like pastors or priests hold significant power, making important decisions and guiding the church. Other influential people within the church community may include board members, deacons, elders, and Sunday school teachers. Power distribution can vary among churches, with some emphasizing equal sharing of power among members and others having a more centralized power structure.
Power dynamics in churches can be complex and complicated. While not all churches operate in the same way, I can share from my personal experience that power dynamics within a churches can sometimes lead to negative actions and behaviors, especially when combined with spiritual manipulation. This occurs when individuals in positions of authority misuse their power to control or exploit others. They may manipulate religious beliefs, practices, or teachings to influence people’s thoughts, actions, or emotions for their own benefit.
This behavior is deeply concerning because it not only affects people’s emotional well-being but also undermines the trust we place in the church, and the very foundation of our faith and belief system. When power is misused in this way, it can create confusion, guilt, and even lead to the loss of faith for some individuals.
In some cases, power dynamics within the church can discourage questioning or challenging authority, creating an environment where abusive behavior can occur. Perpetrators may exploit their position of authority to exert control over others, enabling them to engage in abusive actions. Victims often hesitate to speak out or report the abuse due to fears of potential consequences, such as social exclusion or disbelief. This fear-induced silence allows the abusers to continue their harmful behavior without facing accountability.
The power imbalance exacerbates the potential for abuse, as victims may feel intimidated or believe it is inappropriate to question those in positions of power. Abusers may distort or misuse religious teachings to justify their abusive actions or manipulate victims into compliance. They might manipulate religious beliefs, such as emphasizing forgiveness or submission, to silence victims or discourage them from seeking help.
Power imbalances can lead to a culture of secrecy and protection within the church. Leaders or community members might prioritize maintaining the reputation of the church or protecting the abuser over the well-being and safety of victims. This can prevent the disclosure of abuse and hinder the process of seeking justice.
Though it is important to note that not all religious leaders are abusers, the actions of those who engage in abusive behavior can unfortunately tarnish the reputation of the entire community.
In my experience within IFB religious institutions, I have witnessed how power dynamics can have detrimental effects. Within the church hierarchy, certain individuals hold positions of authority and control, which can lead to a misuse of power. This manipulation can result in hurt and harm to those within the community. For instance, I have seen church leaders use their authority to silence dissenting voices, discourage critical thinking, and enforce strict legalistic adherence to their interpretations of doctrine. This not only stifles individual autonomy but also creates an environment where questioning or expressing concerns is discouraged. As a result, manipulation and hurt can thrive, leaving many feeling marginalized and voiceless within the community they once trusted.
One significant issue I’ve observed is the breach of confidentiality within trusted counseling relationships. It is disheartening to witness people who are sought for guidance and support betray the trust placed in them by sharing confidential information. This breach of confidentiality not only undermines the sense of safety and privacy that should accompany counseling, but also leads to a breakdown in trust within the community. Such actions further perpetuate a cycle of manipulation, hurt, and a reluctance to seek help when it is truly needed. It is imperative that religious institutions emphasize and uphold the ethical standards of confidentiality, ensuring that individuals can confide in trusted counselors and leaders without fear of their personal struggles being divulged to others.
Recognizing and addressing power dynamics, spiritual manipulation, and abuse within religious institutions is crucial for fostering healthy, inclusive, and supportive communities. We need to create places where everyone feels safe to talk about their concerns and hold leaders responsible, and prioritize the well-being and integrity of everyone in the church community.
We should always focus on taking care of each other and treating everyone with respect. By shining a light on these problems, we can work towards healing, justice, and a restoration of the true values and teachings that are supposed to guide us, such as the greatest commandment to love God and love others as ourselves.
If you or someone you know is experiencing physical or sexual abuse, please reach out for help. There are organizations and helplines dedicated to providing support, guidance, and resources to those in need. No one should have to endure abuse, and seeking assistance is a crucial step towards safety and healing.
Here are a few of the most well-known organizations and helplines:
The National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
The National Domestic Violence Hotline (The Hotline): 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) 800.799.SAFE (7233)
Childhelp USA (Childhelp): 1-800-422-4453
The National Human Trafficking Hotline (NHTH): 1-888-373-7888
The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC): 1-800-THE-LOST (843-5678)
If you have access to a SAFE computer:
The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) https://www.thehotline.org/ provides information and resources on domestic violence, including a state-by-state directory of domestic violence organizations.
Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call them at 800.799.SAFE (7233). Learn more about digital security and remember to clear your browser history after visiting their website.
The National Center for Victims of Crime (NCVC) provides information and resources on a variety of crime victim issues, including physical and sexual abuse. https://victimsofcrime.org/
The Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN) https://www.rainn.org/ also has a number of online resources, including a chat hotline, a library of information, and a blog.
These are just a few of the many organizations and helplines that can provide support to victims of physical and sexual abuse.
In addition to these organizations, there are also many local resources available. You can contact your local police department, hospital, or mental health clinic for more information. If you have access to a safe computer you can also search online for “domestic violence resources” or “sexual assault resources” in your area.
You are not alone. There are people who care about you and want to help. Please reach out for help if you are being abused.
Disclaimer: The experiences shared in this post are based on my personal perspective. While I chose to leave the IFB to find a more gracious and loving community, it is important to acknowledge that individuals may have different experiences and find happiness within the IFB or any other religious institution. My decision to leave the IFB does not imply a loss of faith, as faith is a deeply personal and subjective matter. It is essential to respect and recognize the diversity of experiences and perspectives within religious communities. The content shared is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as professional advice, guidance, or a universal representation of the IFB or any religious organization. It is recommended to seek guidance, conduct research, and consider multiple perspectives when making personal decisions or exploring matters of faith.While I speak from personal experience and perspective, I want to acknowledge that I come from a place of extreme privilege. I understand that I have the means and support to change my situation, which may not be the case for everyone. It is important to recognize that each individual’s circumstances vary, and not everyone has the same resources available to them.
In the depths of darkness, I once dwelled, Bound by chains, within a confining cell. A grip tightened, suffocating my soul, As I longed for freedom, to reclaim control.
But then came a moment, a flicker of light, A stirring within, a courageous flight. I broke free from the shackles that held me tight, Embracing a path bathed in truth and insight.
Leaving, a bittersweet release, Aching wounds healed, finding inner peace. The weight upon my shoulders, no longer there, I breathed in liberation, with new air.
The relief that flooded my tired heart, As I embraced the world, ready to restart. No longer defined by the rigid mold, I discovered a beauty that could not be sold.
No longer confined by a limited view, I found my own voice, my spirit renewed. I drank from the cup of authenticity, Embracing the truth of my own identity.
Encourage your weary soul, Break free from the chains, embrace the whole. Find peace in freedom, in truth’s embrace, And bask in the lightness, in boundless grace.
Abstract/TL;DR:Scars are not just blemishes to be hidden, but reminders of strength and resilience. Speaking from the wound addresses immediate pain but may perpetuate negativity. Speaking from the scar reflects healed wounds, growth, and the ability to overcome adversity. Sharing our stories from a place of healing inspires and uplifts others, offering comfort and guidance. Triumph and growth allow us to find meaning in our suffering.
I recently read a saying “Speak from the scar, not the wound.” These simple yet profound words carry a deep message about resilience, healing, and the power of our experiences.
Sometimes when I see my reflection in the mirror, I can’t help but feel a tinge of pride towards the scars that I see on my body. Each mark tells a unique story— skin stretched and cut for two babies, moments of vulnerability and mistakes, a reminder of the pain endured, a wound healed. I know that these scars are proof that I have lived a life full of meaning and resilience. Scars should not be a source of shame, but rather reminders of strength and resilience.
In life, we inevitably encounter pain and adversity. We face heartbreak, disappointment, loss, and countless challenges that leave us wounded and vulnerable. These wounds may be physical, emotional, or even spiritual, and they can leave lasting marks on our being. However, it is how we choose to approach and navigate these wounds that determines the course of our healing.
Recently while talking with a friend she pointed out something that struck a chord with me. She observed that my words have transformed, that I had ceased speaking from a wounded place and had begun to speak from the wisdom etched within my scars. I have thought about her words since then. I realized that my scars were not just life’s blemishes to be hidden, but rather markers of growth and strength that has the power to inspire and uplift others.
Speaking from the wound signifies addressing our pain in its immediate aftermath when emotions are raw and hurt is fresh. It may involve expressing anger, frustration, or despair. While acknowledging and processing these initial emotions is important, solely speaking from the wound can be impulsive and perpetuate negativity. I’m sad to say that I’ve often been guilty of this.
Speaking from the scar carries a different tone. Scars symbolize healed wounds, resilience, growth, and the ability to overcome adversity. It means drawing on past experiences, lessons learned, and gained wisdom. Speaking from the scar involves reflection, offering insights from a place of strength and healing.
When we speak from the scar, our words carry the weight of resilience and depth of understanding. We empathize and show compassion, having walked the painful path ourselves. Our scars inspire others facing similar struggles.By sharing our stories from a place of healing, we can provide comfort, guidance, and hope to those who are still navigating their wounds.
We are not defined by our wounds but by the strength we have shown in overcoming them. Our wounds, though painful, can serve as catalysts for personal growth and transformation. By sharing our experiences, we give purpose to our pain, as it becomes a source of inspiration for others. Triumph and growth allow us to find meaning in our suffering.
Scars
Scars speak tales of strife and grace, Lessons learned in life’s embrace. From wounds to scars, we grow anew, Speak from their depths, let wisdom ensue.
AbstractTL;DR:The pursuit of external beauty consumed me for years, but I’ve come to realize that true beauty extends beyond appearances. Despite societal pressures, I’ve learned that kindness, love, and genuine connections hold far more significance. Embracing my imperfections and celebrating my uniqueness has allowed me to break free from comparisons and love myself fully. While I still have moments of doubt, personal growth and stepping out of my comfort zone are integral parts of embracing life’s beauty. Lasting fulfillment comes from nurturing our inner selves, cultivating meaningful relationships, and pursuing personal growth.
You might find yourself a little confused after reading the title of this post. Perhaps you’re thinking, “What do you mean there’s more to life than just looking good!? But your blog is called ‘Looking Joli Good,’ so isn’t that your main focus?”
In a world fixated on appearances, it’s hard to grasp that life extends far beyond looking good. I’ve personally experienced the weight of this societal pressure, constantly stressing myself out in the shallow pursuit of external beauty and striving for unattainable perfection.
In a world consumed by comparisons and beauty standards, it’s vital to grasp that true inner beauty shines brightest when we stop comparing ourselves to others. Embracing our unique qualities and recognizing our own worth allows us to fully appreciate and nurture the beauty within. It’s like a breath of fresh air, freeing ourselves from comparison and wholeheartedly embracing and loving who we are.
I used to be a part of a religious community that placed a lot of importance on outer appearance and beauty. I felt this constant pressure to always look and dress a certain way. I felt as if my worth was solely determined by my outer appearance. It has taken me forty years, but I’ve come to realize that true beauty goes way beyond what meets the eye. It’s about the kindness we show, the love we spread, and the genuine connections we form. It is about empathy, resilience, and gratitude. It’s about embracing our imperfections and celebrating the uniqueness that makes us who we are.
I must confess, there are occasions when I regress into my old way of thinking. Forty years of ingrained thoughts cannot be switched overnight. However, the important thing is not lingering on those thoughts. Personal growth is a big part of life’s beauty too! Stepping out of our comfort zones, embracing new experiences, and learning from both successes and failures.
While looking good can certainly boost confidence, true fulfillment and happiness stem from nurturing our inner selves, cultivating meaningful relationships, and pursuing personal growth. While external appearances offer fleeting enjoyment, inner peace and beauty bring lasting fulfillment.
Look beyond the surface, don’t be misled, True beauty resides where kindness is spread. In a world obsessed with looks, let’s be understood, There’s more to life than just looking (joli) good.
I’ve been obsessed with Maxi dressed for years! The class yet ease of wearing a flowing maxi dress just always makes me feel put together and beautiful.
I’ve found a new obsession, I have recently fallen in love with jumpsuits!
They are so versatile. They can be dressed up or down, making them perfect for any occasion. They can be worn to work, to a party, or even just running errands. I love that I can just throw on a jumpsuit and be ready to go. No need to worry about matching a top and bottom, or trying to find a piece that flatters my figure. Jumpsuits just work.
I also love that jumpsuits are so comfortable. They’re like wearing a maxi dress, but with the added benefit of pants. I can move around freely and not have to worry about my clothes getting in the way. This makes them perfect for traveling or for those days when I just want to be comfortable.
Finally, I love the way jumpsuits make me feel. They make me feel confident and put-together without feeling like I over thought my outfit choice.
Here are some tips for styling jumpsuits:
Choose a jumpsuit that flatters your body type. If you are petite, look for a jumpsuit that is fitted through the waist and has a longer hemline. If you are curvy, look for a jumpsuit that has a bit of stretch and a cinched waist.
accessorize to add your own personal style. You can add a belt or jewelry to dress up a jumpsuit. For a more casual look, you can wear sandals or sneakers.
Choose the right fabric for the occasion. If you are wearing a jumpsuit to work, choose a fabric that is wrinkle-resistant and professional-looking. If you are wearing a jumpsuit to a party, choose a fabric that is more festive, such as silk or satin.
No matter how you style it, a jumpsuit is a versatile and stylish outfit that is sure to turn heads. So next time you are looking for something to wear, reach for a jumpsuit and you’ll be ready to take on the day.
Whenever I wear a jumpsuits I always feel like I look polished and put-together. They’re a staple in my wardrobe and I know I’ll always reach for them when I need a quick and easy outfit.
Here are some jumpsuits that I have bought and a few I think you might like. Most are around or under $50:
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It has taken me a long time, but I’ve come to a realization: embracing and respecting my body as it is brings so much more happiness. It’s all about finding cute clothes that fit well and wearing them with confidence. In the past, I used to force myself to eat tons of raw veggies every day because it was supposed to be “good for me.” But honestly, they caused so much stomach pain. What’s the point of doing something that’s supposed to be beneficial if it only brings constant discomfort? The same goes for those intense workouts I used to push myself through. Sure, they made me strong, but my muscles were always aching. Why should I torture myself just to conform to societal beauty standards when all I really want is to hang around reading while I wear loose, comfy clothes?
It’s disheartening to see how deeply ingrained diet culture is, even among women in their 60s and beyond. There’s this toxic belief that women must always strive to be thin. But you know what? It’s time to break free from that mindset and simply enjoy life.
By respecting our bodies when they’re asking for a break, honoring our minds when they’re seeking rest, and giving ourselves those much-needed moments of rest and relaxation. I want to share a few tips that I have been working on myself…
Accepting Your Body Shape:
Every body shape is beautiful and deserves to be celebrated. Instead of fixating on changing your body, shift your mindset to accepting and appreciating the unique features that make you who you are. Understanding your body shape can help you make informed choices when it comes to selecting flattering clothing styles that highlight your best features. Embrace your curves, angles, and everything in between! (click HERE to read about discovering what your body shape is and how to dress it.)
Emphasizing Your Assets:
Focus on highlighting the parts of your body that you love and feel confident about. If you adore your legs, choose skirts or dresses that showcase them. If you have an elegant neckline, opt for tops or dresses that draw attention to it. By directing attention to your favorite features, you’ll naturally exude confidence and feel comfortable in your own skin.
Finding the Right Fit:
When it comes to clothing, fit is everything! Instead of squeezing into sizes that don’t align with your body shape, prioritize finding clothes that flatter your unique proportions. Seek out brands and designers that offer a diverse range of sizes and cuts, ensuring you find pieces that fit well and make you feel fantastic. Remember, it’s not about the number on the tag; it’s about how the clothes make you feel.
Experimenting with Styles and Colors:
Fashion is a wonderful playground for self-expression. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different styles, colors, and patterns that resonate with your personality and make you feel vibrant. Play around with textures, layering, and accessories to create visually interesting and flattering outfits. Express your creativity and have fun with your wardrobe, allowing it to reflect your authentic self.
Building a Wardrobe of Confidence:
Invest in a wardrobe that makes you feel confident and comfortable. Curate a collection of versatile pieces that can be mixed and matched to create a variety of stylish outfits. Choose fabrics that feel great against your skin and silhouettes that enhance your natural shape. Surround yourself with clothing that boosts your confidence and allows you to step out into the world with a sense of empowerment.
Dressing the body you have is all about embracing and celebrating your unique beauty. Fashion is a tool for self-expression, and you have the power to curate a wardrobe that makes you feel confident, stylish, and comfortable. Accept your body shape, emphasize your assets, prioritize the right fit, experiment with styles and colors, and build a wardrobe of confidence that truly reflects who you are.
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It is painful to see my grandmother failing. She was always such a strong and classy woman, always wearing high heels, hair perfectly curled, lipstick on, ready for a full day of shopping. But now, things have changed. Her health has deteriorated, and she can no longer live on her own.
It breaks my heart to see her confined to a nursing home, surrounded by unfamiliar faces and the constant reminder of her limitations. The once vibrant and lively woman has become frail and dependent on others for even the simplest tasks.
Every time I visit her, it’s a bittersweet experience. On one hand, I’m grateful that she’s receiving the care she needs and that there are professionals looking after her. But on the other hand, it’s tough to witness her struggle with her physical and mental decline. I can see the frustration in her eyes when she tries to do something and realizes she can’t.
I try my best to bring some joy into her life during my visits. We reminisce about old times, sharing stories that bring a smile to her face. I bring her favorite donut and coffee, hoping to provide some comfort and familiarity. But deep down, I know that these small gestures can never fully make up for the loss she feels.
It’s not just the physical decline that hurts; it’s also the realization that she has slowly lost her independence and the life she once knew. The nursing home may be equipped with caring staff and necessary facilities, but it can never replace the warmth and familiarity of her own home, where she lived for decades.
Despite the pain and sadness that comes with witnessing her decline, I am determined to be there for my grandma. I will continue to visit her, hold her hand, and remind her that she is loved and cherished. Even if she may not fully comprehend it, I hope that deep down, she feels the warmth and love that surrounds her. And for as long as she is with us, I will treasure every moment and make sure she knows that she is not alone in this journey. It’s a reminder that we must cherish the moments we have with our loved ones and make the most of the time we have together.
I believe that it is a misconception that beauty and makeup are solely for young people. In fact, as we grow older, the art of enhancing our natural beauty becomes even more important. It’s a means of boosting our confidence, and embracing our ever changing selves.
The fact that beauty and makeup know no age limits should be celebrated! I firmly believe that we should continue to explore and experiment with different looks that make us feel absolutely fabulous, regardless of our age or stage in life.
Beauty has no expiration date, and we all deserve to look and feel our best, regardless of our age. Whether you’re in your 30s, 40s, or 50s or beyond, I believe that age is just a number and that you can look and feel fabulous at any stage of life. I want to share some amazing makeup techniques specifically for us as we age beautifully!
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Skincare is Key: Before we delve into makeup, let’s emphasize the importance of skincare. Ensure you follow a consistent skincare routine that includes cleansing, moisturizing, and protecting your skin from the sun. Healthy, glowing skin is the perfect canvas for any makeup look.
Hydration and Primer: As we age, our skin tends to lose moisture, leading to a dull appearance. Combat this by using a hydrating primer to create a smooth base for your makeup. Look for primers with added benefits like illuminating properties or anti-aging ingredients.
Lightweight Foundation: Instead of heavy foundations, opt for lightweight formulas that provide coverage while allowing your natural skin to shine through. Consider using a tinted moisturizer or a light-coverage foundation to even out your skin tone without feeling heavy or cakey.
Brighten Up with Concealer: Concealer is your best friend when it comes to hiding under-eye circles, blemishes, or pigmentation. Choose a creamy, hydrating concealer with a peach or yellow undertone to neutralize any discoloration and brighten the under-eye area.
Embrace the Power of Blush: A pop of blush on the cheeks can instantly revive your complexion and give you a youthful glow. Opt for peachy or rosy tones that complement your skin tone. Apply it to the apples of your cheeks, blending it gently towards your temples for a natural flush of color.
Define Your Eyes: As we age, our lashes and brows may thin out. Enhance your eyes by curling your lashes and applying mascara that adds volume and length without clumping. Fill in your eyebrows softly with a brow pencil, gel, or powder to frame your face and create a more youthful appearance.
Soft and Neutral Eyeshadows: For a subtle and sophisticated eye look, opt for soft and neutral eyeshadows. Shades like warm browns, soft taupes, or champagne tones work well to enhance your natural eye color without overpowering your features. Blend the eyeshadow seamlessly for a polished look.
Lip Love: Keep your lips hydrated and nourished with a moisturizing lip balm or lip conditioner. Embrace lipsticks and lip glosses in flattering shades that complement your skin tone. Opt for neutral pinks, mauves, or rosy nudes for a natural and polished finish. (need to figure out what your skin tone is? Read my post by clicking HERE)
Glow from Within: To achieve a youthful and radiant glow, incorporate a highlighter into your makeup routine. Apply a subtle amount on the high points of your face, such as the cheekbones, brow bones, and down the bridge of your nose. This will create a luminous and youthful effect.
Smile and Be Confident: The most important beauty tip of all is to embrace your unique beauty and radiate confidence from within. A genuine smile will always be your best accessory!
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I know, I know, I know, first I write a post about my love for my Dyson Vacuum , and now I am telling you all about password management. While it isn’t beauty related, it is life changing and I have always had a desire to share things with you that are helpful and important to me, beauty related or not.
Despite being someone who isn’t particularly computer savvy (yet married to someone who is), I greatly value online privacy and security measures. I want really strong, really long passwords! If it isn’t 20+ characters with a mix of upper and lowercase alphabetical and numerical with a lot of special characters added in, it is not strong enough for me! Unfortunately, there is no way that I can remember all of those passwords. That is where password managers like 1Password com in.
After relying for several years on LastPass, another popular password manager, and generally finding it satisfactory, some recent security concerns prompted us to seek an alternative. That’s when we made the decision to switch to 1Password.
What I like about 1Password is how it simplifies your password management by keeping track of all your login credentials. It enables you to use unique and complex passwords for each account without the worry of forgetting them. This not only enhances security but also saves you time and frustration.
1Password offer a range of features, here’s a comparison of pros and cons to help you make an informed decision.
Pros:
Password Variety: 1Password has the ability to generate the strongest and most unguessable passwords you can imagine.
Seamless Sync: With 1Password, you can effortlessly sync your data across all your devices. No more frantic searches for that one forgotten password when you’re on the go. It’s like having a well-organized assistant who makes sure all your information is in sync, whether you’re on your laptop, phone, or tablet.
Browser integration: The browser integration is a great! You’re logged in to your favorite websites without the hassle of remembering and typing in those 20+ character passwords.
Share with Care: If you need to share a password with a trusted friend or family member, 1Password’s secure sharing feature lets you do just that.
Cons:
Cost Consideration: 1Password isn’t free, like some other password managers are. While there is a subscription fee involved, the convenience and security it offers are worth it.
Initial Learning Curve: Getting started with 1Password can be a bit overwhelming, especially if you’re like me and not very tech-savvy. Once you get the hang of it, you’ll wonder how you ever managed without it.
Now, let’s compare 1Password and LastPass. Both these password managers have their own strengths and weaknesses, so here’s a quick comparison as I understand it from my experience:
Security: Both 1Password and LastPass prioritize security, employing strong encryption measures. However, 1Password takes it up a notch with its end-to-end encryption, providing an extra layer of peace of mind.
Browser Integration: LastPass occasionally has hiccups with autofill or capturing login information.
Pricing Structure: LastPass offers a free version with limited features, making it appealing for budget-conscious users. However, if you’re seeking the full range of features and capabilities, 1Password subscription model has a more comprehensive solution.
In the end, both 1Password and LastPass have their merits, but 1Password’s user-friendly experience, security, end to end encryption, and seamless integration across platforms makes it a standout choice for those seeking a password manager.
Overall, 1Password is a trustworthy choice for online security. It takes the burden of remembering countless passwords off your shoulders and lets you focus on more important things in life. So, if you value your sanity and want to keep your digital life secure, give 1Password a try.
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