Speak From the Scar, Not the Wound

July 17, 2023July 14, 2023 LauraJoli LookingJoliGood5 Comments

Abstract/TL;DR: Scars are not just blemishes to be hidden, but reminders of strength and resilience. Speaking from the wound addresses immediate pain but may perpetuate negativity. Speaking from the scar reflects healed wounds, growth, and the ability to overcome adversity. Sharing our stories from a place of healing inspires and uplifts others, offering comfort and guidance. Triumph and growth allow us to find meaning in our suffering.

I recently read a saying “Speak from the scar, not the wound.” These simple yet profound words carry a deep message about resilience, healing, and the power of our experiences.

Sometimes when I see my reflection in the mirror, I can’t help but feel a tinge of pride towards the scars that I see on my body. Each mark tells a unique story— skin stretched and cut for two babies, moments of vulnerability and mistakes, a reminder of the pain endured, a wound healed. I know that these scars are proof that I have lived a life full of meaning and resilience. Scars should not be a source of shame, but rather reminders of strength and resilience.

In life, we inevitably encounter pain and adversity. We face heartbreak, disappointment, loss, and countless challenges that leave us wounded and vulnerable. These wounds may be physical, emotional, or even spiritual, and they can leave lasting marks on our being. However, it is how we choose to approach and navigate these wounds that determines the course of our healing.

Recently while talking with a friend she pointed out something that struck a chord with me. She observed that my words have transformed, that I had ceased speaking from a wounded place and had begun to speak from the wisdom etched within my scars. I have thought about her words since then. I realized that my scars were not just life’s blemishes to be hidden, but rather markers of growth and strength that has the power to inspire and uplift others.

Speaking from the wound signifies addressing our pain in its immediate aftermath when emotions are raw and hurt is fresh. It may involve expressing anger, frustration, or despair. While acknowledging and processing these initial emotions is important, solely speaking from the wound can be impulsive and perpetuate negativity. I’m sad to say that I’ve often been guilty of this.

Speaking from the scar carries a different tone. Scars symbolize healed wounds, resilience, growth, and the ability to overcome adversity. It means drawing on past experiences, lessons learned, and gained wisdom. Speaking from the scar involves reflection, offering insights from a place of strength and healing.

When we speak from the scar, our words carry the weight of resilience and depth of understanding. We empathize and show compassion, having walked the painful path ourselves. Our scars inspire others facing similar struggles.By sharing our stories from a place of healing, we can provide comfort, guidance, and hope to those who are still navigating their wounds.

We are not defined by our wounds but by the strength we have shown in overcoming them. Our wounds, though painful, can serve as catalysts for personal growth and transformation. By sharing our experiences, we give purpose to our pain, as it becomes a source of inspiration for others. Triumph and growth allow us to find meaning in our suffering.

Scars

Scars speak tales of strife and grace,
Lessons learned in life’s embrace.
From wounds to scars, we grow anew,
Speak from their depths, let wisdom ensue.

There’s More to Life Than Just Looking Good

July 15, 2023July 14, 2023 LauraJoli LookingJoliGood2 Comments

AbstractTL;DR: The pursuit of external beauty consumed me for years, but I’ve come to realize that true beauty extends beyond appearances. Despite societal pressures, I’ve learned that kindness, love, and genuine connections hold far more significance. Embracing my imperfections and celebrating my uniqueness has allowed me to break free from comparisons and love myself fully. While I still have moments of doubt, personal growth and stepping out of my comfort zone are integral parts of embracing life’s beauty. Lasting fulfillment comes from nurturing our inner selves, cultivating meaningful relationships, and pursuing personal growth.

You might find yourself a little confused after reading the title of this post. Perhaps you’re thinking, “What do you mean there’s more to life than just looking good!? But your blog is called ‘Looking Joli Good,’ so isn’t that your main focus?”

In a world fixated on appearances, it’s hard to grasp that life extends far beyond looking good. I’ve personally experienced the weight of this societal pressure, constantly stressing myself out in the shallow pursuit of external beauty and striving for unattainable perfection.

In a world consumed by comparisons and beauty standards, it’s vital to grasp that true inner beauty shines brightest when we stop comparing ourselves to others. Embracing our unique qualities and recognizing our own worth allows us to fully appreciate and nurture the beauty within. It’s like a breath of fresh air, freeing ourselves from comparison and wholeheartedly embracing and loving who we are.

I used to be a part of a religious community that placed a lot of importance on outer appearance and beauty. I felt this constant pressure to always look and dress a certain way. I felt as if my worth was solely determined by my outer appearance. It has taken me forty years, but I’ve come to realize that true beauty goes way beyond what meets the eye. It’s about the kindness we show, the love we spread, and the genuine connections we form. It is about empathy, resilience, and gratitude. It’s about embracing our imperfections and celebrating the uniqueness that makes us who we are.

I must confess, there are occasions when I regress into my old way of thinking. Forty years of ingrained thoughts cannot be switched overnight. However, the important thing is not lingering on those thoughts. Personal growth is a big part of life’s beauty too! Stepping out of our comfort zones, embracing new experiences, and learning from both successes and failures.

While looking good can certainly boost confidence, true fulfillment and happiness stem from nurturing our inner selves, cultivating meaningful relationships, and pursuing personal growth. While external appearances offer fleeting enjoyment, inner peace and beauty bring lasting fulfillment.

Look beyond the surface, don’t be misled,
True beauty resides where kindness is spread.
In a world obsessed with looks, let’s be understood,
There’s more to life than just looking (joli) good.

Fashion/Style

Jumping For Jumpsuits

July 11, 2023July 11, 2023 LauraJoli LookingJoliGoodLeave a comment

I’ve been obsessed with Maxi dressed for years! The class yet ease of wearing a flowing maxi dress just always makes me feel put together and beautiful.

I’ve found a new obsession, I have recently fallen in love with jumpsuits!

They are so versatile. They can be dressed up or down, making them perfect for any occasion. They can be worn to work, to a party, or even just running errands. I love that I can just throw on a jumpsuit and be ready to go. No need to worry about matching a top and bottom, or trying to find a piece that flatters my figure. Jumpsuits just work.

I also love that jumpsuits are so comfortable. They’re like wearing a maxi dress, but with the added benefit of pants. I can move around freely and not have to worry about my clothes getting in the way. This makes them perfect for traveling or for those days when I just want to be comfortable.

Finally, I love the way jumpsuits make me feel. They make me feel confident and put-together without feeling like I over thought my outfit choice.

Here are some tips for styling jumpsuits:

Choose a jumpsuit that flatters your body type. If you are petite, look for a jumpsuit that is fitted through the waist and has a longer hemline. If you are curvy, look for a jumpsuit that has a bit of stretch and a cinched waist.
accessorize to add your own personal style. You can add a belt or jewelry to dress up a jumpsuit. For a more casual look, you can wear sandals or sneakers.
Choose the right fabric for the occasion. If you are wearing a jumpsuit to work, choose a fabric that is wrinkle-resistant and professional-looking. If you are wearing a jumpsuit to a party, choose a fabric that is more festive, such as silk or satin.

No matter how you style it, a jumpsuit is a versatile and stylish outfit that is sure to turn heads. So next time you are looking for something to wear, reach for a jumpsuit and you’ll be ready to take on the day.

Whenever I wear a jumpsuits I always feel like I look polished and put-together. They’re a staple in my wardrobe and I know I’ll always reach for them when I need a quick and easy outfit.

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Lifestyle

Dress Confidently by Embracing and Celebrating the Body You Have

July 10, 2023July 8, 2023 LauraJoli LookingJoliGoodLeave a comment

It has taken me a long time, but I’ve come to a realization: embracing and respecting my body as it is brings so much more happiness. It’s all about finding cute clothes that fit well and wearing them with confidence. In the past, I used to force myself to eat tons of raw veggies every day because it was supposed to be “good for me.” But honestly, they caused so much stomach pain. What’s the point of doing something that’s supposed to be beneficial if it only brings constant discomfort? The same goes for those intense workouts I used to push myself through. Sure, they made me strong, but my muscles were always aching. Why should I torture myself just to conform to societal beauty standards when all I really want is to hang around reading while I wear loose, comfy clothes?

It’s disheartening to see how deeply ingrained diet culture is, even among women in their 60s and beyond. There’s this toxic belief that women must always strive to be thin. But you know what? It’s time to break free from that mindset and simply enjoy life.

By respecting our bodies when they’re asking for a break, honoring our minds when they’re seeking rest, and giving ourselves those much-needed moments of rest and relaxation. I want to share a few tips that I have been working on myself…

Accepting Your Body Shape:

Every body shape is beautiful and deserves to be celebrated. Instead of fixating on changing your body, shift your mindset to accepting and appreciating the unique features that make you who you are. Understanding your body shape can help you make informed choices when it comes to selecting flattering clothing styles that highlight your best features. Embrace your curves, angles, and everything in between! (click HERE to read about discovering what your body shape is and how to dress it.)

Emphasizing Your Assets:

Focus on highlighting the parts of your body that you love and feel confident about. If you adore your legs, choose skirts or dresses that showcase them. If you have an elegant neckline, opt for tops or dresses that draw attention to it. By directing attention to your favorite features, you’ll naturally exude confidence and feel comfortable in your own skin.

Finding the Right Fit:

When it comes to clothing, fit is everything! Instead of squeezing into sizes that don’t align with your body shape, prioritize finding clothes that flatter your unique proportions. Seek out brands and designers that offer a diverse range of sizes and cuts, ensuring you find pieces that fit well and make you feel fantastic. Remember, it’s not about the number on the tag; it’s about how the clothes make you feel.

Experimenting with Styles and Colors:

Fashion is a wonderful playground for self-expression. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different styles, colors, and patterns that resonate with your personality and make you feel vibrant. Play around with textures, layering, and accessories to create visually interesting and flattering outfits. Express your creativity and have fun with your wardrobe, allowing it to reflect your authentic self.

Building a Wardrobe of Confidence:

Invest in a wardrobe that makes you feel confident and comfortable. Curate a collection of versatile pieces that can be mixed and matched to create a variety of stylish outfits. Choose fabrics that feel great against your skin and silhouettes that enhance your natural shape. Surround yourself with clothing that boosts your confidence and allows you to step out into the world with a sense of empowerment.

Dressing the body you have is all about embracing and celebrating your unique beauty. Fashion is a tool for self-expression, and you have the power to curate a wardrobe that makes you feel confident, stylish, and comfortable. Accept your body shape, emphasize your assets, prioritize the right fit, experiment with styles and colors, and build a wardrobe of confidence that truly reflects who you are.

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Love and Life

The Emotional Toll of Watching a Loved One Grow Old and Frail

July 8, 2023July 8, 2023 LauraJoli LookingJoliGood2 Comments

It is painful to see my grandmother failing. She was always such a strong and classy woman, always wearing high heels, hair perfectly curled, lipstick on, ready for a full day of shopping. But now, things have changed. Her health has deteriorated, and she can no longer live on her own.

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It breaks my heart to see her confined to a nursing home, surrounded by unfamiliar faces and the constant reminder of her limitations. The once vibrant and lively woman has become frail and dependent on others for even the simplest tasks.

Every time I visit her, it’s a bittersweet experience. On one hand, I’m grateful that she’s receiving the care she needs and that there are professionals looking after her. But on the other hand, it’s tough to witness her struggle with her physical and mental decline. I can see the frustration in her eyes when she tries to do something and realizes she can’t.

I try my best to bring some joy into her life during my visits. We reminisce about old times, sharing stories that bring a smile to her face. I bring her favorite donut and coffee, hoping to provide some comfort and familiarity. But deep down, I know that these small gestures can never fully make up for the loss she feels.

It’s not just the physical decline that hurts; it’s also the realization that she has slowly lost her independence and the life she once knew. The nursing home may be equipped with caring staff and necessary facilities, but it can never replace the warmth and familiarity of her own home, where she lived for decades.

Despite the pain and sadness that comes with witnessing her decline, I am determined to be there for my grandma. I will continue to visit her, hold her hand, and remind her that she is loved and cherished. Even if she may not fully comprehend it, I hope that deep down, she feels the warmth and love that surrounds her. And for as long as she is with us, I will treasure every moment and make sure she knows that she is not alone in this journey. It’s a reminder that we must cherish the moments we have with our loved ones and make the most of the time we have together.

Make up · Tips and Tricks

Ageless Beauty: Makeup Tips for Women in Their 30s 40s 50s and beyond

July 5, 2023July 4, 2023 LauraJoli LookingJoliGoodLeave a comment

I believe that it is a misconception that beauty and makeup are solely for young people. In fact, as we grow older, the art of enhancing our natural beauty becomes even more important. It’s a means of boosting our confidence, and embracing our ever changing selves.

The fact that beauty and makeup know no age limits should be celebrated! I firmly believe that we should continue to explore and experiment with different looks that make us feel absolutely fabulous, regardless of our age or stage in life.

Beauty has no expiration date, and we all deserve to look and feel our best, regardless of our age. Whether you’re in your 30s, 40s, or 50s or beyond, I believe that age is just a number and that you can look and feel fabulous at any stage of life. I want to share some amazing makeup techniques specifically for us as we age beautifully!

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Skincare is Key:
Before we delve into makeup, let’s emphasize the importance of skincare. Ensure you follow a consistent skincare routine that includes cleansing, moisturizing, and protecting your skin from the sun. Healthy, glowing skin is the perfect canvas for any makeup look.

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Hydration and Primer:
As we age, our skin tends to lose moisture, leading to a dull appearance. Combat this by using a hydrating primer to create a smooth base for your makeup. Look for primers with added benefits like illuminating properties or anti-aging ingredients.

Lightweight Foundation:
Instead of heavy foundations, opt for lightweight formulas that provide coverage while allowing your natural skin to shine through. Consider using a tinted moisturizer or a light-coverage foundation to even out your skin tone without feeling heavy or cakey.

Brighten Up with Concealer:
Concealer is your best friend when it comes to hiding under-eye circles, blemishes, or pigmentation. Choose a creamy, hydrating concealer with a peach or yellow undertone to neutralize any discoloration and brighten the under-eye area.

Embrace the Power of Blush:
A pop of blush on the cheeks can instantly revive your complexion and give you a youthful glow. Opt for peachy or rosy tones that complement your skin tone. Apply it to the apples of your cheeks, blending it gently towards your temples for a natural flush of color.

Define Your Eyes:
As we age, our lashes and brows may thin out. Enhance your eyes by curling your lashes and applying mascara that adds volume and length without clumping. Fill in your eyebrows softly with a brow pencil, gel, or powder to frame your face and create a more youthful appearance.

Soft and Neutral Eyeshadows:
For a subtle and sophisticated eye look, opt for soft and neutral eyeshadows. Shades like warm browns, soft taupes, or champagne tones work well to enhance your natural eye color without overpowering your features. Blend the eyeshadow seamlessly for a polished look.

Lip Love:
Keep your lips hydrated and nourished with a moisturizing lip balm or lip conditioner. Embrace lipsticks and lip glosses in flattering shades that complement your skin tone. Opt for neutral pinks, mauves, or rosy nudes for a natural and polished finish. (need to figure out what your skin tone is? Read my post by clicking HERE)

Glow from Within:
To achieve a youthful and radiant glow, incorporate a highlighter into your makeup routine. Apply a subtle amount on the high points of your face, such as the cheekbones, brow bones, and down the bridge of your nose. This will create a luminous and youthful effect.

Smile and Be Confident: The most important beauty tip of all is to embrace your unique beauty and radiate confidence from within. A genuine smile will always be your best accessory!

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Review

The Power of Password Protection Managers with 1Password

July 2, 2023July 11, 2023 LauraJoli LookingJoliGoodLeave a comment

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I know, I know, I know, first I write a post about my love for my Dyson Vacuum , and now I am telling you all about password management. While it isn’t beauty related, it is life changing and I have always had a desire to share things with you that are helpful and important to me, beauty related or not.

Despite being someone who isn’t particularly computer savvy (yet married to someone who is), I greatly value online privacy and security measures. I want really strong, really long passwords! If it isn’t 20+ characters with a mix of upper and lowercase alphabetical and numerical with a lot of special characters added in, it is not strong enough for me! Unfortunately, there is no way that I can remember all of those passwords. That is where password managers like 1Password com in.

After relying for several years on LastPass, another popular password manager, and generally finding it satisfactory, some recent security concerns prompted us to seek an alternative. That’s when we made the decision to switch to 1Password.

What I like about 1Password is how it simplifies your password management by keeping track of all your login credentials. It enables you to use unique and complex passwords for each account without the worry of forgetting them. This not only enhances security but also saves you time and frustration.

1Password offer a range of features, here’s a comparison of pros and cons to help you make an informed decision.

Pros:

Password Variety: 1Password has the ability to generate the strongest and most unguessable passwords you can imagine.
Seamless Sync: With 1Password, you can effortlessly sync your data across all your devices. No more frantic searches for that one forgotten password when you’re on the go. It’s like having a well-organized assistant who makes sure all your information is in sync, whether you’re on your laptop, phone, or tablet.
Browser integration: The browser integration is a great! You’re logged in to your favorite websites without the hassle of remembering and typing in those 20+ character passwords.
Share with Care: If you need to share a password with a trusted friend or family member, 1Password’s secure sharing feature lets you do just that.

Cons:

Cost Consideration: 1Password isn’t free, like some other password managers are. While there is a subscription fee involved, the convenience and security it offers are worth it.
Initial Learning Curve: Getting started with 1Password can be a bit overwhelming, especially if you’re like me and not very tech-savvy. Once you get the hang of it, you’ll wonder how you ever managed without it.

Now, let’s compare 1Password and LastPass. Both these password managers have their own strengths and weaknesses, so here’s a quick comparison as I understand it from my experience:

Security: Both 1Password and LastPass prioritize security, employing strong encryption measures. However, 1Password takes it up a notch with its end-to-end encryption, providing an extra layer of peace of mind.
Browser Integration: LastPass occasionally has hiccups with autofill or capturing login information.
Pricing Structure: LastPass offers a free version with limited features, making it appealing for budget-conscious users. However, if you’re seeking the full range of features and capabilities, 1Password subscription model has a more comprehensive solution.

In the end, both 1Password and LastPass have their merits, but 1Password’s user-friendly experience, security, end to end encryption, and seamless integration across platforms makes it a standout choice for those seeking a password manager.

Overall, 1Password is a trustworthy choice for online security. It takes the burden of remembering countless passwords off your shoulders and lets you focus on more important things in life. So, if you value your sanity and want to keep your digital life secure, give 1Password a try.

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Make up · Review

Is The Wet N Wild Bare Focus Tinted Hydrator Worth the Hype?

July 1, 2023June 30, 2023 LauraJoli LookingJoliGood2 Comments

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Are you familiar with all the buzz surrounding the Wet n Wild Beauty Bare Focus Tinted Hydrator? Initially, I had doubts, but considering its affordable price of only $5 USD, I thought it was worth giving it a go.

Let me tell you, the hype is real! I was pleasantly surprised by how much I enjoyed using this product.

The formula is lightweight yet highly effective. During my initial application, I accidentally used too much because I underestimated its potency. It works perfectly if you prefer a more subtle look, but it can easily be built up to provide closer to a medium coverage as well.

I must note that it’s not the most long-lasting formula. Typically, I get about 6 hours of wear before it starts to break up. If I have the opportunity to freshen up in the middle of the day, I can stretch it to around 8 hours. However, by the 12-hour mark, it tends to break down significantly and doesn’t look very good at all.

I have tried both the shades Porcelain and Fair. They are quite similar, with Porcelain having a more pink undertone, while Fair leans towards a brown/yellow undertone. One thing to keep in mind is that both the Porcelain and Fair tended to oxidize quite a bit.

Considering its price point, this product absolutely lives up to the hype! Also, Wet n Wild products are Cruelty-Free, Vegan, and not tested on animals. There are 11 different shades available.

The Wet n Wild Beauty Bare Focus Tinted Hydrator has generated a lot of excitement, and for good reason. How about you? Have you tried it? What do you think?

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Lifestyle

Blogging is so 2015…

June 30, 2023July 11, 2023 LauraJoli LookingJoliGood7 Comments

So, here’s the thing, I realize that blogging is not where it’s at. It’s like the Internet’s version of a time machine, transporting us back to the ancient era of 2015. Remember those days when blogs were all the rage? Oh the nostalgia!

Once upon a time, my blog was a bustling hub of activity, with traffic pouring in and likes multiplying like weeds in a garden. It was an exciting time to write a blog. But oh, how the times have changed. The once-vibrant community has moved on and my poor blog, like most, resembles more of a desolate graveyard, with the occasional random visitor stumbling upon its forgotten pages.

Sure, I could try creating reels or catchy videos for Instagram and TikTok or whatever the latest digital sensation will be. But there’s something satisfying about coming up with a written paragraph that just can’t be replicated in a 15-second clip or a clickbait title. Blogging for me is more than just a trendy activity or a desperate attempt to relive the glory days of the mid-2010s. It’s my creative outlet. I still believe in the power of words. It’s my way of expressing myself and sharing my ideas with the world, even if the world has moved on to new shiny more exciting platforms.

Don’t get me wrong, I appreciate the creativity and brevity of those quick videos. But let’s face it, when it comes to beauty tips and product suggestions, I can’t help but wish they had an accompanying good old-fashioned blog post with all the details written down for me to refer back to.

Despite the fact that we’re not living in the past, I still find myself sitting here, typing away, pouring my thoughts into blog posts. Am I crazy for spending my time this way? Well, maybe just a little bit. Why do I continue to write?

Just because “everyone” is hopping on the latest social media bandwagon doesn’t mean I have to abandon my blog. Going viral might sound exciting to some, but for me, it’s a recipe for stress, pressure, and loss of privacy. The thought of my every move being scrutinized by thousands ( in some cases, millions) of people, no thank you! The allure of fame may be tempting to some, but I’ve seen enough cautionary tales to know that it often comes with a hefty price. I am not interested! I’d rather have a small, loyal following who appreciates my work rather than a fleeting moment of viral stardom (yuck!).

So, while I may be swimming against the tide of progress, I’ll keep on typing, post after post, because my blog is important to me. Even when I take breaks from it, it’s where my thoughts find a home, my ideas come to life. Blogging may be so 2015, but while everyone else is chasing the latest trends and desperately seeking their 15 minutes of online fame, I’ll be over here, blogging away. Even if I am the only one, I’m determined to keep blogging alive, one post at a time.

Fashion/Style · Lifestyle

Effortless Elegance: Fashion Tips for Women in Their 30s 40s and 50s and beyond.

June 28, 2023June 22, 2023 LauraJoli LookingJoliGood1 Comment

Fashion is an art form that allows us to showcase our inner beauty and celebrate our individuality. It’s a language that speaks volumes without uttering a single word. It’s never too late to tap into your fashion prowess and make a statement that reflects who you are.

Fashion knows no age limits! We need to celebrate the beauty of every stage of life and embrace the power of style to elevate our confidence and express our unique personalities. Whether you’re in your 30s, 40s, or 50s or beyond, these are tips to guide your fashion potential and discovering inspiring ideas to create chic and timeless looks.

I want to share fashion tips and tricks tailored specifically for women in their 30s, 40s, and 50s and beyond. From flattering silhouettes to color palettes that enhance your complexion, these are some tips that I have learned that will help create looks that make you feel confident, comfortable, beautiful, and fabulous at any age. Get ready to turn heads, make a statement, and express yourself through your style. (This post contains affiliate links)

Embrace Your Body Shape:
Understanding your body shape is key to dressing confidently. Embrace your curves and focus on highlighting your best features. Whether you have an hourglass figure, an inverted triangle, or a pear shape, dress in a way that flatters your unique silhouette. (If you want to read more about this you can check out my post called “Accentuating Your Body Shape: Dressing Comfortably and Confidently to Embrace Your Unique Silhouette” by clicking HERE)

Invest in Wardrobe Staples:
Build a versatile wardrobe foundation by investing in timeless pieces that can be mixed and matched effortlessly. It is fun to wear trendy clothes, but the majority of your wardrobe should be made up of classic pieces. Essential items like a well-fitted blazer, tailored trousers, a little black dress, classic white shirts, and a quality pair of jeans are must-haves that will never go out of style.

Play with Colors:
Experiment with colors that complement your skin tone and bring out your natural radiance. While neutrals like black, white, and navy are timeless, don’t be afraid to incorporate pops of color into your outfits. Jewel tones, pastels, and earthy hues can add vibrancy and freshness to your overall look.

Prioritize Comfort:
As we age, comfort becomes increasingly important. Search for clothing made from high-quality fabrics that feel comfortable against your skin. Pay attention to details like stretch, breathability, and a relaxed fit without compromising on style.

Flatter with Fit:
Opt for well-fitting garments that enhance your silhouette. Avoid overly baggy or tight clothing. Tailored pieces that skim your body will create a polished and put-together look. Don’t be afraid to get clothes altered to achieve the perfect fit.

Show Off Statement Accessories:
Accessories have the power to transform an outfit. Invest in statement pieces like a chunky necklace, a stylish handbag, or a pair of eye-catching earrings to elevate your look. They can instantly add personality, panache, and pizzazz to even the simplest of outfits.

Mix Classics with Trends:
Combine timeless classics with current trends to create a stylish and contemporary look. Mix and match a classic blazer with a trendy graphic tee or pair your favorite jeans with a flowy bohemian blouse. This blend of old and new will keep your style fresh and relevant.

Don’t Shy Away from Prints:
Embrace the charm of prints and patterns to inject some personality into your wardrobe. Whether it’s florals, stripes, animal prints, or geometric designs, wearing prints can add visual interest and make your outfits more exciting.

Comfortable Shoes are a Must:
Invest in comfortable yet stylish shoes that provide support throughout the day. Opt for classic pumps, stylish flats, or elegant ankle boots. Don’t forget to add a pair of fashionable sneakers for casual outings and weekend adventures.

Confidence is Your Best Accessory:
The most important fashion tip is to wear your clothes with confidence and embrace your unique style. No matter what your style, when you feel good in what you wear, your inner beauty will shine through, making any outfit truly remarkable.

I hope these helpful fashion tips inspire you to explore new styles, embrace your body shape, and exude confidence through your clothing choices. Fashion is a form of self-expression, so have fun, be adventurous, and create looks that make you feel fabulous at any age.

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