Love and Life

Never Underestimate the Big Importance of Doing Small Things!

A few years ago, I was going through a challenging time in my life. I felt overwhelmed by the weight of my responsibilities and the uncertainty of the future. It was during this period that a simple act of kindness from one of my patients left a lasting impression on me.

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One particularly tough week, as I was preparing for my next patient assignment, lost in my thoughts, a cancer patient I had taken care of often who was being cared for by another nurse that day and handed me a small, handwritten note. The note read, “You are stronger than you think, and your kindness matters more than you will ever know.” Those words of encouragement meant more to me that day than she will ever realize.

At that moment, it felt like a ray of sunshine breaking through the clouds. It was a small thing, a mere piece of paper with a few words, but it had a profound effect on my outlook. It reminded me that there was goodness in the world, that even a patient dying of cancer could offer a dose of hope when it was needed the most.

I carried that note with me for a long time, stuck onto my locker door. Whenever I faced a tough day or felt my resolve waver, I would take a look at it and read those words again. It became a source of strength, a reminder that even the smallest acts of kindness can have a significant impact on someone’s life.

This experience taught me that we all have the power to make a positive difference in the lives of others through small, thoughtful gestures. It’s not always about grandiose deeds or extravagant displays of generosity; sometimes, it’s the little things, like a kind word or a sincere smile, that can brighten someone’s day or provide the support they need.

In my own life, I’ve tried to pay it respect to that patient’s memory by embracing the idea that small things matter. Whether it’s a handwritten note of encouragement, offering a listening ear to a friend in distress, smiling at a stranger, or simply being present for someone during a difficult time, I’ve come to understand the profound impact these small actions can have.

“Never underestimate the big importance of doing small things,” They remind me of the power of kindness, empathy, and the little gestures that can make the world a better place—one small act at a time.

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Lifestyle

The Crashing Ocean Waves of Grief

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One year ago, in the courtyard garden of the Spaulding Hospital Cambridge, I sat crying under this beautiful tree. One of my favorite people had just passed away. It’s hard to believe that an entire year has already gone by. 🌸

I miss her all the time! I think of her often. Whether it’s because I think of something funny she said or did, or because of something I wish I could text or tell her. She would have HATED social distancing and isolation! 🌸

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Last night my Grandma passed away…😭 Due to her age and medical conditions, it wasn’t a surprise, but at the same time, I wasn’t expecting to lose her last night.🌸

She was a spunky lady. She always had an interesting story to tell, her nails perfectly done, and sunglasses on. 💅😎She was the epitome of the Shakespeare quote from Midsummer Night’s Dream “Though she be but little she is fierce” I’m going to miss her, but I know she’s so happy to be reunited in Heavenwith my Poppop and their dog Chase.🌸

Grief is a crazy thing, it’s like standing in the ocean being hit by waves. Sometimes the thought of the people I’ve lost makes me laugh and sometimes I cry.🌸

There’s no expiration date on grief. It could be twenty years later when you feel the wave crash against you as if it just happened yesterday. For now, I’ll take the waves one at a time…laughing and crying. 🌸

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If you love someone, tell them. Don’t wait! You never know when you might not have another chance.🌸

For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. Jeremiah 29:11🌸

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Lifestyle

Is There Still HOPE?!

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HOPE: /hōp/
noun
1. a feeling of expectation and desire for a certain thing to happen.
synonyms: aspiration, desire, wish, expectation, ambition, aim, plan, dream,
2.a feeling of trust.
verb
1.want something to happen or be the case.
synonyms: expect, anticipate, look for, wait for, be hopeful of, pin one’s hopes on, want

I lost a good friend last week, Barbara.

I had so much HOPE that God would heal her, HOPE that she would be whole again, HOPE that things would return to normal, HOPE that cancer would lose and we would win her back again. HOPE that this would be the end of a chapter in her life and not the end of life.

That wasn’t God’s plan.

Does that mean that I have lost HOPE?!
Absolutely not! I HOPE that I can be as kind and friendly as Barbara was. I HOPE that like Barbara when people leave my presence they feel better and happier for having been with me. I HOPE that I can praise God despite not being able to breathe. I HOPE that my life can be like Barbara’s, at the mention of my name people cry because they miss me but quickly start to smile and laugh because of all the happy and good things. I HOPE it can be said of me “well done.”

Today we will celebrate the wonderful and full life of Barbara. I have HOPE because I will see her again in Heaven.

For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a HOPE.
Jeremiah 29:11

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Hope Through Disappointment

Have you ever set a goal for yourself then worked incredibly hard doing everything right to make it happen, only to be disappointed with a slip-up?  Yup, that was me the other day. 

I got upset at my failure and started to feel disappointed in my myself.  I found myself at that juncture of two choices…. I could either let the disappointment derail me, ignore all the previous progress that I had made and forget about the whole thing, or realize that I made a mistake, learn from it, and move forward. 

To be honest, I wanted to give up and slip back into old habits. Change is so hard!  Making the right choice is not usually easy!

I woke up this morning with these verses from Lamentations 3:18-25 on my mind…

18 And I said, My strength and my hope is perished from the Lord:

19 Remembering mine affliction and my misery, the wormwood, and the gall.

20 My soul hath them still in remembrance and is humbled in me.

21 This I recall to my mind, therefore have I hope.

22 It is of the Lord’s mercies that we are not consumed because his compassions fail not.

23 They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.

24 The Lord is my portion, saith my soul; therefore will I hope in him.

25 The Lord is good unto them that wait for him, to the soul that seeketh him.

Today is a new day. Each morning is a new start.

I had to realize I had been putting my hope in something that disappoints…myself. God has a better plan for me than I could ever imagine for myself.  I had to repent of my pride and remind myself that God is my portion and hope. 

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