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Love Me Like There’s No Tomorrow: Freddie Mercury and the Stigma of HIV/AIDS

Studying population public health has opened my eyes to the overwhelming impact that infectious diseases have on individuals and society. As I’m reading Anthony Fauci’s On Call, I find myself deeply moved by the part he played in the relentless battle against HIV/AIDS and the advocacy that shaped public health responses.

This story isn’t just about statistics and policies, it’s about the people behind them. My love for the musical group Queen makes it even more personal.As I was reading the sections of Dr. Fauci’s book talking about HIV/AIDS, I kept thinking about Freddie Mercury. His voice has always been a source of joy and inspiration to me, but his struggle with HIV/AIDS is a heartbreaking reminder of how deeply personal suffering can be, especially when met with fear and ignorance. He faced the disease with quiet strength, even as the world speculated about his health. His story is one of love, loss, and the desperate need for understanding in a time when so many suffered in silence.

Freddie Mercury, the legendary frontman of Queen, was not only a musical genius but also a man who carried an immense burden with grace. His battle with HIV/AIDS in the late 1980s and early 1990s was marked by secrecy, pain, and a world that often responded with fear rather than empathy. As his body weakened, his spirit never did, he poured everything he had into his music, leaving behind a legacy that continues to inspire. But beyond the music, his life serves as a stark reminder of the suffering so many endured in silence, battling not only a ruthless disease but also the cruel judgment of society. Mercury’s story urges us to remember, to care, and to continue fighting for a world free of stigma and ignorance.

The Diagnosis and Secrecy

During the 1980s, HIV/AIDS was widely misunderstood, leading to fear, discrimination, and misinformation. At the height of Queen’s success, Mercury was diagnosed with the disease, but he kept his condition private for several years. The intense stigma surrounding HIV/AIDS at the time forced many, including Mercury, to suffer in silence. Homophobia further fueled the discrimination, as the disease was often falsely labeled as a consequence of sexual orientation rather than a global public health crisis.

The Public Revelation and Its Impact

It was not until November 23, 1991, just one day before his death, that Mercury publicly acknowledged his illness. His statement read: “Following the enormous conjecture in the press, I wish to confirm that I have been tested HIV-positive and have AIDS. I felt it correct to keep this information private to date to protect the privacy of those around me.” This courageous announcement brought global attention to the disease, challenging the stigma and ignorance surrounding it.

Mercury’s death at the age of 45 was a tragic loss to the world of music. However, it also marked a turning point in the public conversation about HIV/AIDS. His revelation helped humanize the epidemic, demonstrating that it could affect anyone, regardless of fame or fortune. In the wake of his passing, organizations such as The Mercury Phoenix Trust were established to fund AIDS research and raise awareness.

The Broader Struggles of People Living with HIV/AIDS

Mercury’s struggle was not unique. During the 1980s and early 1990s, thousands of individuals with HIV/AIDS faced not only the physical devastation of the disease but also widespread discrimination. Many lost their jobs, were denied healthcare, and were even abandoned by family and friends. The stigma surrounding the illness prevented open discussions, delaying medical research and policy changes that could have saved lives.

Despite these hardships, advocacy efforts grew stronger. Activist groups such as ACT UP (which stands for AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power,) fought for better treatment options and government intervention. The development of antiretroviral therapies in the mid-1990s transformed HIV from a death sentence into a manageable condition, but stigma and misinformation persist even today.

Mercury’s Enduring Legacy

Freddie Mercury’s legacy extends far beyond his music. His bravery in the final days of his life, coupled with his immense talent, continues to inspire people worldwide. His story serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of compassion, education, and scientific progress in the fight against HIV/AIDS. Through continued advocacy and medical advancements, the world moves closer to eradicating both the disease and the stigma that surrounds it.

Today, as public health efforts focus on prevention, treatment, and awareness, Mercury’s influence remains a guiding force in destigmatizing HIV/AIDS and supporting those affected. His music, his resilience, and his impact on the fight against HIV/AIDS ensure that his legacy will never be forgotten.

In the words of Freddie Mercury
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Love me like there’s no tomorrow

Hold me in your arms

Tell me you mean it

This is our last goodbye

And very soon it will be over

But today just love me like there’s no tomorrow

You can make a donation to Freddie’s organizations The Mercury Phoenix Trust to fund AIDS research and raise awareness by clicking HERE or by visiting https://www.mercuryphoenixtrust.org/site/getinvolved

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No One Gets Out Alive

Recently I was listening to the beautiful song “No One Gets Out Alive” by Maggie Rose, and was struck by the truth found in this catchy song.

In life, there are moments that define us, urging us to seize every opportunity before it slips away. Whether it’s buying a dream house, traveling and exploring the streets of a new place, or wearing that dress that makes you feel good about yourself, we’re reminded that no one gets out alive. Reach out to friends and loved ones, make the call that you have been putting off, send the text or email that you have been meaning to send, and live without regrets.

Slow down, linger on the swing, savoring the illusion of eternity, hoping for a tomorrow that may never come. We gaze at the sky from a hill, trying to hold onto fleeting moments, knowing that time waits for no one. Celebrate the present, cherishing the bonds that tie us together. In the end, all we have are the memories we create, the love we share, and the life we’ve lived.

No one gets out alive, so why not make every moment count? Instead of dwelling on fears or hesitations, let’s embrace the uncertainty of life with courage and enthusiasm. Let’s prioritize experiences over possessions, connections over distractions, and authenticity over conformity. Life is a journey filled with twists and turns, highs and lows, but it’s our willingness to embrace it fully that defines our legacy. In the end, it’s not about how long we live, but how deeply we’ve experienced every moment along the way.

Checkout Maggie’s song “No One Gets Out Alive” by clicking HERE.

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It Is Well – Kristene DiMarco and Bethel Music – You Make Me Brave

Grander earth has quaked before
Moved by the sound of His voice
Seas that are shaken and stirred
Can be calmed and broken for my regard

And through it all, through it all
My eyes are on You
And through it all, through it all
It is well

And through it all, through it all
My eyes are on You
And it is well with me

And far be it from me to not believe
Even when my eyes can’t seeAnd this mountain that’s in front of me
Will be thrown into the midst of the sea

And through it all, through it all
My eyes are on You
And through it all, through it all
It is well

And through it all, through it all
My eyes are on You
And it is well
It is well

So let go my soul and trust in Him
The waves and wind still know His name
So let go my soul and trust in Him
The waves and wind still know His name
So let go my soul and trust in Him
The waves and wind still know His name
The waves and wind still know His name

And it is well with my soul
It is well with my soul
It is well with my soul
It is well 
It is well with my soul
Oh it is well with my soul (’cause of who you are)
Oh it is well with my soul
It is well with my soul
It is well 
It is well with my soul
It is well 
It is well with my soul
It is well 
It is well with my soul

And through it all, through it all
My eyes are on You
And through it all, through it all
It is well LordAnd through it all, through it all
My eyes are on You 
And it is well with me

Songwriters: Kristene Elizabeth DimarcoIt

Is Well lyrics © Bethel Music Publishing

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My Seventeen Favorites of 2017

I cannot believe that 2017 is already practically over!  Time really does fly!  I remember saying to one of my patients in May that it would be 4th of July in no time, and here it is already almost New Year’s Eve!  Where did the year go?!

Despite the time flying, I have fallen in love with some great products this past year.  Here is a list of my favorite 17 things or 2017. I have included both beauty and non-beauty related items with links to make shopping easier 🙂

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  1.  This is my favorite eyeshadow single of 2017 
  2. This is my favorite Palette from 2017
  3. This is my favorite Lip Product of 2017.
  4. Favorite Body Wash of 2017:
    • Caress Mystique Forever Body Wash $4  This stuff smells so amazing!  My skin never feels dry or irritated when I use this body wash.  I like all the scents, but the purple one Mystique Forever is my favorite.Caress Mystique Forever Body Wash | lookingjoligood.blog
  5. My favorite Skin Care item of 2017
  6. My favorite makeup brush of 2017
  7. My favorite makeup related decision of 2017
  8. My favorite fashion purchase of 2017
  9. My favorite book of 2017
    • The Best Yes by Lysa TerKeurst.  I have read a lot of books this year (65 to be exact.) I have read some great ones and some not so great ones.  Out of all the books that I have read this year, The Best Yes by Lysa TurKerst has made the most impact on my life.  I have been teaching a Bible study at my church based on this book. Since I have to teach, I have been forced to get into my Bible more deeply as I have studied this book.The Best Yes | lookingjoligood.blog
  10. My favorite way to listen to music:
    • Spotify.  My husband recently switched from a regular account to the family plan.  I have been loving having my own playlists!Spotify | lookingjoligood.blog
  11. My favorite artist of 2017
    • Lauren Dangle.  Her voice is amazing and I love the style of worship music that she sings.Lauren Daigle | lookingjoligood.blog
  12. My favorite song of 2017
    • Broken Things by Matthew West.  I especially love the lines “The pages of history they tell me it’s true.That it’s never the perfect; it’s always the ones with the scars that You use”Matthew West - Broken Things | lookingjoligood.blog
    • Runner-up Different by Micah Tyler. I love the line, “And I don’t wanna spend my life stuck in a pattern And I don’t wanna gain this world but lose what matters.”

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      I know, that I am far from perfect But through You, the cross still says I’m worth it
    • Runner-up Thy Will by Hillary Scott. My favorite line from this song is “I know you hear me, I know you see me, Lord Your plans are for me Goodness you have in store”Thy Will by Hillary Scott | lookingjoligood.blog
  13. My favorite Podcast of 2017
  14. My favorite “Ice Cream” of 2017
    • Halo Top I love them all but my favorite flavors are PB Cup and Oatmeal Cookie! The PB Cup has only 320 calories in the entire pint and 6 grams of protein per serving! Eating these two together is a match made in Heaven!halo top | lookingjoligood.blog
  15. My favorite food discovery of 2017
    • Trader Joe’s Avocado’s Number Guacamole to Go.  Six packets of 100 calories of guacamole.  I love putting these into my lunch for work or grabbing it on the go when I don’t have time to make myself something healthy for lunch.Trader Joes Guacamole and sweet potato chips | lookingjoligood.blog
  16. My favorite Looking Joli Good posts of 2017
    • I really enjoyed writing all of my posts from November about Gratitude.  I enjoyed reminding myself daily about all that I have to be thankful for.gratitude | lookingjoligood.blog
  17. My favorite thing of all 2017
    • I love Cadbury Mini Eggs.  This year I discovered them at CVS during the Christmas season!cadbury mini eggs | lookingjoligood.blogCadbury Christmas balls | lookingjoligood.blog

What about you?  What have you been loving during 2017?  I would love to hear all about it in the comment section!

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