Love and Life

Never Underestimate the Big Importance of Doing Small Things!

A few years ago, I was going through a challenging time in my life. I felt overwhelmed by the weight of my responsibilities and the uncertainty of the future. It was during this period that a simple act of kindness from one of my patients left a lasting impression on me.

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One particularly tough week, as I was preparing for my next patient assignment, lost in my thoughts, a cancer patient I had taken care of often who was being cared for by another nurse that day and handed me a small, handwritten note. The note read, “You are stronger than you think, and your kindness matters more than you will ever know.” Those words of encouragement meant more to me that day than she will ever realize.

At that moment, it felt like a ray of sunshine breaking through the clouds. It was a small thing, a mere piece of paper with a few words, but it had a profound effect on my outlook. It reminded me that there was goodness in the world, that even a patient dying of cancer could offer a dose of hope when it was needed the most.

I carried that note with me for a long time, stuck onto my locker door. Whenever I faced a tough day or felt my resolve waver, I would take a look at it and read those words again. It became a source of strength, a reminder that even the smallest acts of kindness can have a significant impact on someone’s life.

This experience taught me that we all have the power to make a positive difference in the lives of others through small, thoughtful gestures. It’s not always about grandiose deeds or extravagant displays of generosity; sometimes, it’s the little things, like a kind word or a sincere smile, that can brighten someone’s day or provide the support they need.

In my own life, I’ve tried to pay it respect to that patient’s memory by embracing the idea that small things matter. Whether it’s a handwritten note of encouragement, offering a listening ear to a friend in distress, smiling at a stranger, or simply being present for someone during a difficult time, I’ve come to understand the profound impact these small actions can have.

“Never underestimate the big importance of doing small things,” They remind me of the power of kindness, empathy, and the little gestures that can make the world a better place—one small act at a time.

Laura lookingjoligood.wordpress.com
Health/ Fitness

Early Detection Saves Lives!

October is Breast Cancer Awareness month! As an oncology nurse, I feel the need to spread the word that early detection saves lives!

Breast cancer is the most common cancer among women in the United States, with over 280,000 new cases diagnosed each year. It is also the second leading cause of cancer death among women, after lung cancer. However, early detection and treatment can significantly improve survival rates.

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The goal of Breast Cancer Awareness Month is to educate the public about breast cancer, including the risk factors, signs and symptoms, and early detection methods. It is also a time to raise funds for research and support services for people affected by breast cancer.

Get screened. If you are a woman over the age of 40, talk to your doctor about getting regular mammograms. Mammograms can detect breast cancer early, when it is most treatable.

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Know the signs and symptoms. Breast cancer can cause a variety of signs and symptoms, including a lump in the breast, changes in the size or shape of the breast, nipple discharge, and pain in the breast or underarm. If you experience any of these symptoms, be sure to see your doctor right away.

Talk to your friends and family. Encourage the women in your life to get screened for breast cancer and to know the signs and symptoms. You can also talk to them about the importance of breast cancer awareness and how to get involved.

Breast Cancer Awareness Month is a time to come together to support those affected by breast cancer and to raise awareness about this important disease. By getting involved, you can help make a difference.

There are a number of ways to get involved in Breast Cancer Awareness Month. You can donate to a charity that supports breast cancer research or support services, participate in a fundraising event, or simply talk to your friends and family about the importance of early detection.

Laura lookingjoligood.wordpress.com
Lifestyle

Cancer Cannot!

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I’ve spent the majority of my professional nursing career fighting cancer. Sometimes it seems as if I’m helping in the battle, and sometimes Cancer has the upper hand.

Cancer is a thief, a time stealer, a heartbreaker.

Cancer thinks it is so strong. Cancer feeds off of fear. Cancer knows hearing its name attached to the one you love will knock you off your feet and send your head spinning. Cancer thinks that it’s is unstoppable.

There are so many things that cancer cannot do.

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Cancer cannot annihilate love,  terminate peace, trample hope or diminish faith.
Cancer cannot silence praise or quitet laughter.
Cancer cannot destroy friendship or remove memories.
Cancer cannot squash courage, suppress motivation, or cripple inspiration.
Cancer can weaken the body but it cannot conquer the soul or destroy the spirit.
Cancer can shorten life but it can never steal eternal life.
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It is hard to believe anything good can come from the disappointment and pain of loss.  Trusting God in difficult times leads to a stronger faith. He’s always with us and will use hard times in our lives to make us stronger, wiser, more patient, and more compassionate, more like Him.
I lost a close friend to cancer today. Cancer may be able to separate us here on Earth, but it cannot take away our eternal life together in Heaven.

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